TOTAL POWER EXCHANGE BLUEPRINT
A step-by-step system for building daily rituals, routines, and rules that take your D/s dynamic beyond the bedroom.
Sound Familiar?
You want a D/s dynamic that actually shows up in your day-to-day life —
Not just at night. Not just in the bedroom.
But maybe you’ve run into this:
You’ve tried adding rules or rituals — but they fizzle fast
You’re craving more control or structure, but don’t want to micromanage or feel robotic
You know you want something deeper… but don’t know where to start
Let’s change that.
OUR WORK HAS BEEN FEATURED IN:
Build the Dynamic You’ve Been Craving
Inside this training, you’ll unlock the tools to:
- 🔒 Claim control with purpose
— Identify where power exchange feels aligned, not exhausting - ❤️ Create rituals with emotional impact
— Build obedience and intimacy through daily structure - ⚡ Turn fantasy into lifestyle
— Map out a TPE dynamic that fits your real life (yes, even with kids or careers)
By the end, you’ll walk away with a personalized power exchange plan that’s clear, kinky, and built to last — not just roleplay, but a lifestyle.
Structure That Turns You On
This isn’t theory. This is real-world guidance for real kinksters.
Inside, you’ll learn how to design rituals, routines, and rules that work for your actual life — whether you’re working 9 to 5, parenting, long-distance, neurodivergent, or brand new to TPE.
🎥 Bite-sized videos you can finish in a weekend — and revisit anytime
💡 Real-life examples from couples who’ve made TPE sustainable (and sexy)
📘 A printable workbook to map out your own Total Power Exchange Blueprint
You’ll walk away with your own Total Power Exchange Blueprint — a step-by-step plan for building rituals, routines, and rules that feel aligned, not overwhelming.
We Don’t Just Teach Total Power Exchange. We Live It.
Hi! We’re Jay & Alesandra.
We’ve been in a full-time Total Power Exchange relationship for nearly a decade — and married for over 20 years.
We’re also parents, business owners, and real people with real lives. We live this dynamic day in and day out — through school drop-offs, burnout, date nights, and grocery runs.
Over the years, we’ve helped thousands of kinksters through our courses and coaching find a version of TPE that feels powerful, sustainable, and aligned with their actual lives — not just fantasy.
This course isn’t about perfection.
It’s about creating structure, clarity, and intimacy your way — and giving you the tools to keep it going when life gets messy.
What Our Students Say:
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this for new or experienced kinksters?
Both. Whether you’re new to Total Power Exchange or trying to go deeper, this gives you the tools to make it real.
Do I need to be in a 24/7 dynamic for this to work?
Nope! This works for Doms and subs at any level — from bedroom-only to full-time.
What if I’m unhappy with the course?
We’d never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase after going through and completing the entire course and taking action, simply contact us within the first 30 days and we will gladly give you a full refund.
I have one more question before I sign up.
No problem! Just send us a message using the chat box at the bottom right corner of this page and we’ll get back to you soon.
The Total Power Exchange Blueprint
Your dynamic. Your rituals. Your rules.
Ready to make it real?
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