Here’s a short video (about 2 minutes) of me talking about tips to come up with creative ideas for unforgettable BDSM scenes, so you can stop being bored in the bedroom! Whether you’re a veteran kinkster or you’re brand new, this 2-minute hack is going to really transform your scenes.
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Transcript for BDSM Scene Creation Tips:
Hi, it’s Alesandra from Dom Sub Living. I’m just coming to you today with a quick tip. So I know a lot of you have trouble sometimes coming up with ideas for scenes. And that was actually something that come came up in our mastermind recently.
So one of our best tips is whenever you come across something on the internet that you see or in a blog post or on social media, and it kind of, you know, sparks your interests or your curiosity, or you just think that that looks like fun.
Whenever you see something like that, take a screenshot or write it down in a note. And so you can have an ongoing note in your phone with all these different ideas. And then what you can do is categorize them into three different categories.
So the first one would be bondage. So of course, that includes things like rope, and blindfolds, cuffs, so you can kind of categorize things into that area.
And then your next one would be pain. So that would be things like paddles, clothes pins, if you’re on a budget, even things like biting, so you don’t always have to have equipment either.
And then your next category would be pleasure. So that would be things like the tail ends of a flogger, going across the body, using massage oil, or even a vibrator.
So just put them into those three different categories whenever you come across something or you have an idea in your head or something. And then after a while, you’ll have a nice long list that you can refer back to and you can kind of mix a match and put one from each category into your scenes.
So hopefully that helps give you some ideas on coming up with how to put together scenes. But you can check out more at Domsubliving.com. We have a lot of tips and hacks there, but I will see you next time.
