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The Dom Sub Living BDSM Podcast

with ALESANDRA MADISON

The top BDSM & Kink podcast that teaches you the skills behind power dynamics in the bedroom. Learn how to improve your Dom/sub devotion, get out of the vanilla rut, embrace kink, and make BDSM a thrilling lifestyle.

Hit subscribe on your favorite platform and be whisked into a better sexual practice. Enjoy a weekly kink podcast for empowering individuals and couples alike in BDSM, kink, and power exchange encounters.

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Popular Kinky Podcast Episodes

Never miss an episode! Hear about the latest in-depth topics on our weekly kinky podcast:

Soft Doms Are In—What Gentle Domination Looks Like

Soft Doms Are In—What Gentle Domination Looks Like (Ep. 84)

Not every Dom is harsh or intense—gentle domination leads with care and connection. Discover why soft Doms are on the rise and how to embrace this style…

Why BDSM Works Better Than Therapy (For Some People)

Why BDSM Works Better Than Therapy (For Some People) (Ep. 83)

Therapy isn’t the only path to healing—sometimes BDSM offers what talk therapy can’t. Discover how kink can transform your journey and…

5 BDSM Scene Ideas You’ll Want To Try Tonight

5 BDSM Scene Ideas You’ll Want To Try Tonight (Ep. 82)

Make your BDSM scenes unforgettable—no dungeon or hours of planning required! Try these 5 easy, hot Dom/sub ideas to connect tonight and…

BDSM & Polyamory: Master Multiple Power Dynamics Without Drama

BDSM & Polyamory: Master Multiple Power Dynamics Without Drama (Ep. 81)

Balancing BDSM and polyamory can feel complex, but clear rules can help. Discover Alesandra’s roadmap to juggling DS dynamics without the chaos…

AI in BDSM: Can a Robot Really Be Your Sub?

AI in BDSM: Can a Robot Really Be Your Sub? (Ep. 80)

AI is revolutionizing BDSM dynamics with AI-driven Doms and subs. But is tech enhancing kink or replacing real intimacy? Dive into Dom Sub Living to explore…

Dominants vs. Submissives: Who Really Has It Harder?

Dominants vs. Submissives: Who Really Has It Harder? (Ep. 79)

Navigating Dom sub dynamics: Who really bears the heavier load? Unveiling the challenges each role faces and the journey to find balance and growth…

How to Be a More Confident Dominant

How to Be a More Confident Dominant (Ep. 78)

To master dominance, focus on presence, trust, and leadership, not volume. Harness your style to confidently lead and build trust in your dynamic…

50 Game-Changing BDSM Tips in 15 Minutes

50 Game-Changing BDSM Tips in 15 Minutes (Ep. 77)

Unlock the top 50 BDSM tips for connection, exploration, and pleasure. From communication to aftercare, discover how to deepen your experiences…

10 Most Popular Kinks (Are Yours on the List?)

10 Most Popular Kinks (Are Yours on the List?) (Ep. 75)

Exploring kinks can feel daunting, but they’re more common than you think! Uncover the top 10 kinks everyone secretly loves and start your journey…

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Popular Kinky Podcast Episodes

Not sure where to start with our in-depth BDSM podcast? I’ve pulled together my most popular episodes that other kinksters around the world are loving:

5 Reasons Why You Need BDSM in Your Life
5 Reasons Why You Need BDSM in Your Life
My Unfiltered Story About Why I Started This Podcast
My Unfiltered Story About Why I Started This Podcast
Meet my Dom! Advice and Tips for Dominants
Meet my Dom! Advice and Tips for Dominants

If you like what you hear, sit back, hit subscribe, and get ready to transform your life and relationship. Our kink-friendly podcast is here to open your mind and deepen your connection.

Meet the Host of The Dom Sub Living Podcast

Alesandra, host of The Dom Sub Living BDSM + Kink Podcast
Hi, I’m Alesandra Madison.

In an era where “Fifty Shades of Grey” seems to be the leading message for kinksters, I set out to shift the conversation.

What started with a blog resource for kinksters of all kinds has evolved into something that’s so much more. I run Dom Sub Living to be a resource for everyone wishing for a better BDSM lifestyle. Our bondage podcast episodes are just an extension of that mission!

On our kink friendly podcast, we dig deep into mastering your Dom/sub mindset and kink skills. Together, we talk about topics that will deepen your connection with your partner.

Discover topics like breaking free from the vanilla rut. Learn the secrets of unlocking your true potential as a Dominant or submissive. Discover how to make BDSM a thrilling lifestyle. It’s all here in our kink podcast.

In addition to teaching over 10,000 students through my online courses, I’m also a 24/7 submissive. With over a decade of hands-on experience in the BDSM lifestyle, I’m eager to share all I’ve learned. This kinky podcast is just an extension of my commitment to the BDSM community.

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Check out our BDSM Blog!

This is where it all began! And our popular blog is still running strong alongside new episodes of our BDSM kink podcast.

Explore dozens of in-depth articles designed to help you reprogram your vanilla beliefs and habits. Create a sexy, thrilling BDSM relationship with our free resources for BDSM practitioners. This kinky resource is guaranteed to help you live a kinkier life.

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Exploring Worship Kink: A Deep Dive into Devotion and Submission

What Is A Praise Kink & 20 Hot Praise Kink Phrases

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5 Tips for an Ownership Kink in Practice

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