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Vetting a Submissive? Avoid These 5 Red Flags Before You Commit (Ep. 48)
When vetting a sub, look out for inconsistency, boundary issues, and unwillingness to learn. A healthy D/s dynamic needs respect, trust, and communication…
Topping from the Bottom? Stop Sabotaging Your D/s Dynamic Now! (Ep. 47)
Is your DS dynamic secretly being sabotaged by topping from the bottom? Learn how to regain balance in your relationship and stop it before it wrecks everything…
How to Vet a Dominant: Key Questions and Red Flags to Look For (Ep. 46)
Vetting a Dominant is crucial for your safety and well-being in BDSM. Discover the key questions to ask, red flags to watch for, and practical tips to ensure…
Understanding Brats in BDSM: Embrace the Fun and Challenge! (Ep. 45)
Bratting can add playful energy to your BDSM dynamic, but how do you balance fun and respect? Learn effective ways to turn bratting into a positive force…
Maintenance Spankings: 5 Things You Need to Know (Ep. 44)
Maintenance spankings reconnect and prevent bratty behavior, maintaining your D/s dynamic. But how do they differ from punishment spankings, and what’s their real purpose…
The BDSM Olympics: Top 10 Kinky Skills Revealed (Ep. 43)
Master the art of BDSM with our kink Olympic decathlon! Dive into rope bondage, impact play, sensory deprivation, and more to elevate your scenes and…
4 Ways to Build Trust in a Dom/sub Relationship (Ep. 42)
We’re delving into the core of trust in D/s relationships, sharing actionable tips on building and maintaining trust to create a deeper bond…
From BDSM Newbie to Expert: Navigating the Stages of Your D/s Journey (Ep. 41)
Curious about BDSM but unsure where to start? Or ready to advance your skills? We’re guiding you through the stages from newbie to expert and…
How to Balance a 24/7 BDSM Dynamic with Vanilla Life (Ep. 40)
Balancing a 24/7 BDSM dynamic with everyday responsibilities can be overwhelming. Discover practical tips for harmony between your vanilla life and BDSM desires…
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Hi, I’m Alesandra Madison.
In an era where “Fifty Shades of Grey” seems to be the leading message for kinksters, I set out to shift the conversation.
On the podcast, we dig deep into mastering your Dom/sub mindset and kink skills. Together, we talk about topics like breaking free from the vanilla rut, unlocking your true potential as a Dominant or submissive, and making BDSM a thrilling lifestyle.
In addition to teaching over 10,000 students through my online courses, I’m also a 24/7 submissive with over a decade of hands-on experience in the BDSM lifestyle.
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