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Chastity and Locktober: Everything You Need to Know (Ep. 106)
Chastity is more than just denial—discover how Locktober unlocks intimacy, surrender, and fun in modern BDSM relationships as Alesandra explores…
Your First Dungeon Night or Munch? What to Expect (Ep. 104)
Curious about your first dungeon or Munch? Learn what to expect, what to wear, and how to find your kink community with confidence as Alesandra reveals…
Inside Our BDSM Contract – What We Really Agreed To (Ep. 102)
Think BDSM contracts are just kinky rules or 50 Shades fiction? Discover the real essentials for lasting D/s dynamics and how to create your own…
100 Episodes of Kink: What I Learned the Hard Way (Ep. 100)
After 100 episodes, Alesandra reveals the unexpected truths that make or break a BDSM lifestyle—and why learning and growth never stop in kink and…
DDLG 101: The Truth About Being a Babygirl (Ep. 99)
DDLG dynamics go beyond outfits and rules—they’re about care, structure, and healing intimacy. Discover the real meaning behind caregiver relationships and…
5 Dom/sub Punishment Ideas I Love (and Hate) (Ep. 98)
Not all Dom sub punishments are created equal! Discover the 5 punishments I love to hate and how they build real connection in your dynamic…
Every Fake Dom Does This. (Ep. 96)
Spot the red flags in your DS relationship! Discover the top 5 mistakes fake Doms make—and how to create a safe, trusting dynamic instead…
7 Hidden Habits That Keep D/s Relationships Strong (Ep. 95)
Most Dom sub relationships start hot, then fizzle. Discover the 7 hidden habits thriving D/s couples commit to for lasting connection and growth…
Most BDSM Teachers Get This Completely Wrong (Ep. 94)
Most BDSM education is outdated or wrong—and it’s messing up real dynamics! Here are 10 myths hurting kink relationships and how to fix them…
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In an era where “Fifty Shades of Grey” seems to be the leading message for kinksters, I set out to shift the conversation.
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On our kink friendly podcast, we dig deep into mastering your Dom/sub mindset and kink skills. Together, we talk about topics that will deepen your connection with your partner.
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In addition to teaching over 10,000 students through my online courses, I’m also a 24/7 submissive. With over a decade of hands-on experience in the BDSM lifestyle, I’m eager to share all I’ve learned. This kinky podcast is just an extension of my commitment to the BDSM community.
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