The top BDSM & Kink podcast that teaches you how to improve your Dom/sub devotion, get out of the vanilla rut, embrace kink, and make BDSM a thrilling lifestyle.
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BDSM in Real Life: A Dom/sub Married Couple Shares Their Journey (Ep. 67)
Harlo and Adira share their journey in balancing BDSM roles with real-life responsibilities, offering tips on communication, mindset, and dealing with challenges…
How to Negotiate a BDSM Relationship That Truly Works (Ep. 66)
In BDSM, negotiation is key to aligning desires and boundaries. Want to master your dynamic? Learn the six essential steps to a successful negotiation and…
5 BDSM Experts Reveal the #1 Thing They Wish They Knew (Ep. 65)
Discover what every kink expert wishes they knew before starting BDSM! Insightful, heartfelt advice from top educators to help you embrace your journey and…
BDSM Goals: The Kinkiest Bucket List You’ll Ever See (Ep. 64)
Looking to spice up your BDSM journey? Discover new ways to set thrilling, meaningful goals in your dynamic and build deeper connections. Curious how? Let’s dive in…
How to Handle Dom/sub Conflict Without Breaking the Dynamic (Ep. 63)
Conflict in Dom/sub dynamics can undermine relationships if not handled carefully. Learn how to maintain balance and restore roles during disputes…
Q&A With a 24/7 Submissive – Ask Me Anything! (Ep. 62)
Understanding D/s dynamics, maintaining trust, and proactive submission can be challenging yet rewarding! Explore key insights and tips to thrive in your dynamic…
Impact Play 101: 5 Beginner-Friendly Ideas to Try Now (Ep. 61)
Curious about Impact Play but not sure where to begin? Discover 5 simple, beginner-friendly ideas to make your experience safe, fun, and fulfilling with these tips and…
Exploring BDSM Roles: Which One Is Right for You? (Ep. 60)
Discover your BDSM identity with Dom Sub Living Podcast! Explore various roles like dominant, submissive, and switch to find what resonates with you…
Service-Oriented BDSM: Elevate Your Dom/sub Dynamic (Ep. 59)
Explore how service-oriented BDSM can deepen your dynamic. Discover intentional acts of service that enhance connection and appreciation in your relationship…
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Meet the Host of The Dom Sub Living Podcast
Hi, I’m Alesandra Madison.
In an era where “Fifty Shades of Grey” seems to be the leading message for kinksters, I set out to shift the conversation.
On the podcast, we dig deep into mastering your Dom/sub mindset and kink skills. Together, we talk about topics like breaking free from the vanilla rut, unlocking your true potential as a Dominant or submissive, and making BDSM a thrilling lifestyle.
In addition to teaching over 10,000 students through my online courses, I’m also a 24/7 submissive with over a decade of hands-on experience in the BDSM lifestyle.
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