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BDSM relationships can be extremely unique and complicated, to say the least. Whether you’re currently in a dynamic with someone, or just want to prepare, these articles will help you master a BDSM relationship.

3 reasons why you need to watch the “Secretary”

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Probably one of the best BDSM movies is Secretary.  It stars actors Maggie Gyllenhaal and James Spader as the characters Lee Holloway and E. Edward Grey.  There is so much I love about this movie: the quotes, the horse scene, and the deeper meaning of pain explained.  Here is my review and why it’s one of […]

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BDSM Myths You Need to Stop Believing Now

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Whether you are just curious about BDSM or you have been playing for a long time, you have probably encountered many myths about it.  Below are some of the top ones debunked.  These were originally featured in the newsletter for “Dom Sub Living” and more will continue to be added. Sign up for the “Dom […]

Submissive’s Journal: The Ultimate Guide to Submissive Journal Prompts & Ideas

Submissive’s Journal

In beginning my BDSM journey as a sub, I thought keeping a submissive’s journal was very vanilla.  “Shouldn’t I just tell my Dom my feelings and ideas?” I didn’t think a submissive journal would be useful, but my Dominant wanted me to, so I obeyed.  Here’s what I’ve learned, plus some submissive journal prompts and […]

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