Not every Dom is harsh or intense—gentle domination leads with care and connection. Discover why soft Doms are on the rise and how to embrace this style…
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AI in BDSM: Can a Robot Really Be Your Sub? (Ep. 80)
AI is revolutionizing BDSM dynamics with AI-driven Doms and subs. But is tech enhancing kink or replacing real intimacy? Dive into Dom Sub Living to explore…
Dominants vs. Submissives: Who Really Has It Harder? (Ep. 79)
Navigating Dom sub dynamics: Who really bears the heavier load? Unveiling the challenges each role faces and the journey to find balance and growth…
How to Be a More Confident Dominant (Ep. 78)
To master dominance, focus on presence, trust, and leadership, not volume. Harness your style to confidently lead and build trust in your dynamic…
3 BDSM Mistakes I Made (That Almost Ruined My Journey!) (Ep. 73)
Discover 3 key BDSM mistakes to avoid, like prioritizing rules over connection and ignoring your needs. Learn how to navigate with confidence and…
BDSM Submissive Punishments: How to Punish Your Sub Effectively
Most Dominant/submissive relationships in BDSM usually have varying types of submissive punishments. Correction (even over text) is needed from time to time when they break the rules. However, many Doms struggle with ideas for knowing how to punish a sub. Here are some tips to keep in mind for a submissive punishment, and we even […]
Our 24/7 Total Power Exchange Relationship: How We Built It (Ep. 70)
TPE is about trust and freedom, not control. Learn the steps to building a fulfilling 24/7 relationship dynamic and how it can empower both partners…
Lost the Kinky Spark? Revive Your D/s Dynamic Today (Ep. 68)
Feeling stuck in your D/s relationship? You’re not alone. Life gets in the way, and suddenly the spark is gone. Let’s make your dynamic feel alive again and…
BDSM in Real Life: A Dom/sub Married Couple Shares Their Journey (Ep. 67)
Harlo and Adira share their journey in balancing BDSM roles with real-life responsibilities, offering tips on communication, mindset, and dealing with challenges…
How to Negotiate a BDSM Relationship That Truly Works (Ep. 66)
In BDSM, negotiation is key to aligning desires and boundaries. Want to master your dynamic? Learn the six essential steps to a successful negotiation and…
Check Off Your Dom Sub Living Kinky Bingo Card
You did a lot of kinky things this year. What did you check off your BDSM bucket list? There’s no way to sugarcoat it. From a messy political election, the spectacle of the Olympics, and whispers of a possible bird flu pandemic, 2024 has been a rollercoaster of a year. But through all the hardships, […]
How to Handle Dom/sub Conflict Without Breaking the Dynamic (Ep. 63)
Conflict in Dom/sub dynamics can undermine relationships if not handled carefully. Learn how to maintain balance and restore roles during disputes…
Exploring BDSM Roles: Which One Is Right for You? (Ep. 60)
Discover your BDSM identity with Dom Sub Living Podcast! Explore various roles like dominant, submissive, and switch to find what resonates with you…
Service-Oriented BDSM: Elevate Your Dom/sub Dynamic (Ep. 59)
Explore how service-oriented BDSM can deepen your dynamic. Discover intentional acts of service that enhance connection and appreciation in your relationship…
Dom Drop 101: Support Strategies Every Sub Should Know (Ep. 57)
Explore the complexities of Dom drop and learn how to offer support, reassurance, and aftercare for dominants. Navigate challenges and rebuild your dynamic by…
Punishment or Play? How to Know the Difference in BDSM (Ep. 56)
Understanding the difference between punishment and play in BDSM can prevent misunderstandings and build trust. Learn how to navigate these dynamics and…
Topping from the Bottom? Stop Sabotaging Your D/s Dynamic Now! (Ep. 47)
Is your DS dynamic secretly being sabotaged by topping from the bottom? Learn how to regain balance in your relationship and stop it before it wrecks everything…
How to Vet a Dominant: Key Questions and Red Flags to Look For (Ep. 46)
Vetting a Dominant is crucial for your safety and well-being in BDSM. Discover the key questions to ask, red flags to watch for, and practical tips to ensure…
Understanding Brats in BDSM: Embrace the Fun and Challenge! (Ep. 45)
Bratting can add playful energy to your BDSM dynamic, but how do you balance fun and respect? Learn effective ways to turn bratting into a positive force…
Maintenance Spankings: 5 Things You Need to Know (Ep. 44)
Maintenance spankings reconnect and prevent bratty behavior, maintaining your D/s dynamic. But how do they differ from punishment spankings, and what’s their real purpose…
The BDSM Olympics: Top 10 Kinky Skills Revealed (Ep. 43)
Master the art of BDSM with our kink Olympic decathlon! Dive into rope bondage, impact play, sensory deprivation, and more to elevate your scenes and…
4 Ways to Build Trust in a Dom/sub Relationship (Ep. 42)
We’re delving into the core of trust in D/s relationships, sharing actionable tips on building and maintaining trust to create a deeper bond…
Perfectionism in BDSM as a Dom or Sub (Ep. 39)
Feeling overwhelmed by perfectionism in your BDSM journey? We’re sharing tips on embracing imperfection and announcing a free 4-day boot camp to help…
Age Gaps in BDSM Relationships (Ep. 31)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today, we’re tackling a topic I’ve shied away from due to its inherent controversy and my personal biases: age gap relationships within the BDSM community. Navigating Age Gaps: A Personal and Cultural Perspective Let’s start with a little backstory. My interest in age-gap relationships isn’t just […]
Exploring the Depths of BDSM with Just Press Foreplay (Ep. 29)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE I sat down with Suzii from Just Press Foreplay to peel back the layers of a Dominant-submissive (D/s) dynamic. We can’t stress enough the importance of communication and regular check-ins. It’s about understanding each other’s depths—one question, one journal entry at a time. This foundational practice […]
Foolproof BDSM Advice (Ep. 25)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today we’re delving deep into a subject that is both personal and pivotal for anyone who is exploring the realms of BDSM. As someone who has navigated the complexities of power dynamics, I’ve heard my fair share of advice – some good, and some outright dangerous. […]
What No One Tells You About Dom/Sub Relationships (Ep. 24)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE We’re diving deep into the less-discussed topics of BDSM relationships—a world far beyond the staged perfection of a dungeon scene. As someone who has transitioned from a vanilla to a BDSM relationship, I have firsthand experience with the raw complexities this lifestyle entails. So, let’s cut […]
Surprising Signs You Might Be a Switch (Ep. 23)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today I am diving into the thrilling world of being a switch in the BDSM community. In this blog post, we’ll explore the surprising signs that suggest you might be a switch, and I’ll share some insightful experiences and perspectives on the fluidity of power, desire, […]
4 Ways to Be a Better Dominant (Ep. 22)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today, I’ll be unraveling the secrets to becoming a great Dominant. Whether you’re just beginning your journey into BDSM or you’re a seasoned practitioner, these insights will revolutionize your approach and deepen the dynamic with your submissive. 1. Cultivating Effective Communication Effective communication lays the foundation […]
The Ultimate BDSM Checklist for Kinks, Limits & More
(Free Printable Kink Checklist!) When you’re engaging in the kink lifestyle, it’s important to have a BDSM checklist. You probably already have a basic BDSM kink list that you found when you first began your journey. However, it’s essential to have one that is reputable and comprehensible. A good kink checklist will also help you […]