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Is Fifty Shades of Grey Really that Bad? (Ep. 91)
Is 50 Shades of Grey really that bad for the kink community, or did it help spark real conversations about BDSM and consent? Let’s break it down and…
A Guide to Dom/sub for Starters & BDSM for Beginners
Many people who are curious about kink want to know the quickest way to get started and learn BDSM. When you’re just a BDSM beginner, confusion is not uncommon. It can be really frustrating to try to figure out what a Dominant or submissive is all about. If you don’t get started the right way, […]
How to Train Your Sub (Ep. 90)
Training your sub isn’t about punishments—it’s about building trust, habits, and real connection in your dynamic. Discover practical tips and rituals as you…
What People Get Wrong About Total Power Exchange (Ep. 88)
Total power exchange (TPE) can sound extreme, but is it really? Alesandra debunks myths and shares real-life tips for building consensual TPE dynamics…
10 Taboo Kinks: Which Are Normal vs. Truly Dangerous? (Ep. 87)
Your darkest fantasies are more normal than you think! Discover which taboo kinks are safe, which are risky, and how to explore them without shame…
BDSM for ADHD and Autism: Build a Dynamic That Fits (Ep. 85)
Kink isn’t one-size-fits-all—especially for neurodivergent minds! Here’s how to create a BDSM dynamic that fits your unique brain and needs…
Soft Doms Are In—What Gentle Domination Looks Like (Ep. 84)
Not every Dom is harsh or intense—gentle domination leads with care and connection. Discover why soft Doms are on the rise and how to embrace this style…
Why BDSM Works Better Than Therapy (For Some People) (Ep. 83)
Therapy isn’t the only path to healing—sometimes BDSM offers what talk therapy can’t. Discover how kink can transform your journey and…
5 BDSM Scene Ideas You’ll Want To Try Tonight (Ep. 82)
Make your BDSM scenes unforgettable—no dungeon or hours of planning required! Try these 5 easy, hot Dom/sub ideas to connect tonight and…
BDSM & Polyamory: Master Multiple Power Dynamics Without Drama (Ep. 81)
Balancing BDSM and polyamory can feel complex, but clear rules can help. Discover Alesandra’s roadmap to juggling DS dynamics without the chaos…
AI in BDSM: Can a Robot Really Be Your Sub? (Ep. 80)
AI is revolutionizing BDSM dynamics with AI-driven Doms and subs. But is tech enhancing kink or replacing real intimacy? Dive into Dom Sub Living to explore…
Dominants vs. Submissives: Who Really Has It Harder? (Ep. 79)
Navigating Dom sub dynamics: Who really bears the heavier load? Unveiling the challenges each role faces and the journey to find balance and growth…
How to Be a More Confident Dominant (Ep. 78)
To master dominance, focus on presence, trust, and leadership, not volume. Harness your style to confidently lead and build trust in your dynamic…
50 Game-Changing BDSM Tips in 15 Minutes (Ep. 77)
Unlock the top 50 BDSM tips for connection, exploration, and pleasure. From communication to aftercare, discover how to deepen your experiences…
10 Most Popular Kinks (Are Yours on the List?) (Ep. 75)
Exploring kinks can feel daunting, but they’re more common than you think! Uncover the top 10 kinks everyone secretly loves and start your journey…
5 Sensation Play Tips for an Unforgettable Experience (Ep. 74)
Enhance your BDSM scenes with sensation play! Learn five game-changing tips to make every touch, tease, and anticipation unforgettable…
3 BDSM Mistakes I Made (That Almost Ruined My Journey!) (Ep. 73)
Discover 3 key BDSM mistakes to avoid, like prioritizing rules over connection and ignoring your needs. Learn how to navigate with confidence and…
Why BDSM Turns You On: The Psychology of Kink (Ep. 71)
Uncover the psychology behind BDSM and what truly excites your brain. From endorphins to taboos, dive into the pleasure and emotional release of kink…
Our 24/7 Total Power Exchange Relationship: How We Built It (Ep. 70)
TPE is about trust and freedom, not control. Learn the steps to building a fulfilling 24/7 relationship dynamic and how it can empower both partners…
Beducated Review – Plus Coupon Code!
As a Dom/sub couple, my partner and I are always looking for ways to explore our sexuality and improve our intimate relationship. One of the resources we’ve found incredibly helpful in this regard is Beducated. Keep reading for my complete Beducated review, and also get your coupon code for a subscription discount. My Honest Beducated […]
Wearing a Collar 24/7 in My D/s Marriage: What It’s Really Like (Ep. 69)
Collars in D/s dynamics aren’t just symbols—they represent ownership, commitment, and trust. Discover the depth and meaning behind wearing a collar 24/7 in our latest episode…
Lost the Kinky Spark? Revive Your D/s Dynamic Today (Ep. 68)
Feeling stuck in your D/s relationship? You’re not alone. Life gets in the way, and suddenly the spark is gone. Let’s make your dynamic feel alive again and…
How to Write a BDSM Contract + Free Printable BDSM Contract Template
Have you considered adding a new layer of structure and reliability to your BDSM dynamic? Well, then you’ve come to the right place! It’s always a good idea to have a BDSM contract before you begin any new Dom/sub relationship. It spells out in detail what is expected of each person. It also keeps things safe […]
BDSM in Real Life: A Dom/sub Married Couple Shares Their Journey (Ep. 67)
Harlo and Adira share their journey in balancing BDSM roles with real-life responsibilities, offering tips on communication, mindset, and dealing with challenges…
How to Negotiate a BDSM Relationship That Truly Works (Ep. 66)
In BDSM, negotiation is key to aligning desires and boundaries. Want to master your dynamic? Learn the six essential steps to a successful negotiation and…
5 BDSM Experts Reveal the #1 Thing They Wish They Knew (Ep. 65)
Discover what every kink expert wishes they knew before starting BDSM! Insightful, heartfelt advice from top educators to help you embrace your journey and…
BDSM Goals: The Kinkiest Bucket List You’ll Ever See (Ep. 64)
Looking to spice up your BDSM journey? Discover new ways to set thrilling, meaningful goals in your dynamic and build deeper connections. Curious how? Let’s dive in…
Check Off Your Dom Sub Living Kinky Bingo Card
You did a lot of kinky things this year. What did you check off your BDSM bucket list? There’s no way to sugarcoat it. From a messy political election, the spectacle of the Olympics, and whispers of a possible bird flu pandemic, 2024 has been a rollercoaster of a year. But through all the hardships, […]
How to Handle Dom/sub Conflict Without Breaking the Dynamic (Ep. 63)
Conflict in Dom/sub dynamics can undermine relationships if not handled carefully. Learn how to maintain balance and restore roles during disputes…