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How to Create a BDSM Contract- FREE PDF

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It’s always a good idea to have a BDSM contract before you begin any new Dom/sub relationship.  It spells out in detail what is expected of each person.  It also keeps things safe and consensual.  Even if you are just starting to explore kink, a contract can make communication easier.  It’s one of the few […]

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A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM and Dom/sub

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Many people who are curious about kink want to know the quickest way to get started. When you’re just a BDSM beginner, it can be really frustrating to try and figure out what a Dominant or submissive is all about.  If you don’t get started the right way, you’re going to waste a lot of […]

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Our Top 7 Kinky Black Friday Deals

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I’m so excited for Kinky Black Friday 2021! Here’s some awesome sales and events happening in the online BDSM world, where you can get some amazing deals right now with my exclusive discounts: #1: Use code 15DMSB and get 15% off orders of $25 or more on BDSM toys and gear at Luxurious Bliss: ​Learn […]

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BDSM Rituals and Why You Need Them

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Rituals are an important part of any healthy BDSM relationship. They help the Dominant and submissive remember their roles, and can be a way to stay centered and focused. But creating powerful and easy Dom/sub rituals (that don’t fizzle out) can be challenging.  Read on to discover proven examples of D/s rules and protocols, and […]

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How to go from Vanilla to BDSM and Kink

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One of the questions I get asked the most is, “How do I go from vanilla to BDSM?” (The definition of vanilla is plain, normal, or boring.) Maybe the person read the book 50 Shades of Grey, or wants to incorporate kink into their relationship or sex life to bring more meaning to it. It […]

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FREE BDSM QUIZ! Discover your kink personality type

FREE BDSM QUIZ! Discover your kink personality type

One size fits all is not what BDSM and kink is about — Consider this quiz your shortcut to exploring your kinky potential. When you align with your natural strengths and innate sexuality, the Dom/sub lifestyle becomes a whole lot easier. Take this test and get instant access to your customized plan. You’ll find out what […]

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BDSM Collars: The Only 2 Types You Need [Photos]

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If you’re a Dominant or submissive in a D/s relationship, you’ve probably wondered about BDSM collar etiquette and meaning.  After all, there are so many different types for different situations: consideration, sub training, posture, play, everyday wear, pet, protection, ownership, ceremony, and eternity, just to name a few.  And what about a day collar for […]

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Everything You Need to Know About Being a Switch

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When most people think of a BDSM relationship, they usually only think of the Dominant and submissive roles (typically a guy and a girl).  The truth is, there are many shades of gray on the kink spectrum. Many people (even vanilla ones) enjoy being what’s called a “switch,” and switching from Dom or sub can […]

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