LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | IHEART Are you curious about BDSM but feel overwhelmed and unsure where to start? Or maybe you’re already exploring but need guidance to advance to the next level? I understand how daunting the BDSM journey can be. In this post, I’ll break down the stages from newbie […]
Relationships
How to Balance a 24/7 BDSM Dynamic with Vanilla Life (Ep. 40)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | IHEART Are you struggling to balance your 24/7 BDSM dynamic with everyday responsibilities like family, work, or school? When I first started my journey, balancing homeschooling my kids and my role as a full-time submissive was a significant challenge. In this article, I’ll share practical tips and […]
Perfectionism in BDSM as a Dom or Sub (Ep. 39)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | IHEART Today we’re diving deep into a topic that hits very close to home for many of us in the BDSM community, whether you are a Dom or sub—perfectionism. We’ll explore the pitfalls of striving for perfection and how to overcome them for a fulfilling BDSM relationship. […]
BDSM Degradation & Humiliation Kink: Ideas & Tips (Ep. 37)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | IHEART Have you ever felt unsure about how to explore the degradation kink in your BDSM relationship? Perhaps you’re worried about crossing the line or doing it wrong. In this article, I’m going to help you navigate these intense and thrilling aspects of BDSM confidently with my […]
Kink and Kids: DOs and DON’Ts for D/s Parents (Ep. 36)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | IHEART Parenting is a demanding role that requires consistency, love, and a lot of patience. Embracing a BDSM lifestyle, on the other hand, introduces a different set of dynamics that involve trust, boundaries, and profound communication. I am diving into how my partner and I balance these […]
BDSM Q&A: Fresh Ideas, Avoiding Burnout, Navigating DMs (Ep. 35)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | IHEART Let’s have a deep dive into the nuanced aspects of maintaining a vibrant and healthy Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship! This recent podcast episode was all about your questions and my responses. From enhancing your scenes and rituals to steering clear of burnout, we covered it all. Here, […]
BDSM in your 40s, 50s, and Beyond! (Ep. 32)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE We’re diving into a topic close to my heart—embracing BDSM as a lifestyle in your 40s, 50s, and even later. Many people think of BDSM as a young person’s game, but let me tell you, that’s far from the truth. Age is not only a number […]
Age Gaps in BDSM Relationships (Ep. 31)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today, we’re tackling a topic I’ve shied away from due to its inherent controversy and my personal biases: age gap relationships within the BDSM community. Navigating Age Gaps: A Personal and Cultural Perspective Let’s start with a little backstory. My interest in age-gap relationships isn’t just […]