In the BDSM community there is a saying: Safe, Sane, Consensual, or SSC. Whether you are new to the Dom/sub lifestyle or have been playing for a long time, this is one of the most common foundations for any D/s relationship. But what does Safe, Sane, Consensual mean in real life? Here’s how to practically […]
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Every Fake Dom Does This. (Ep. 96)
Spot the red flags in your DS relationship! Discover the top 5 mistakes fake Doms make—and how to create a safe, trusting dynamic instead…
Fake Dom vs Real Dom: 9 Warning Signs
In creating Dom Sub Living I’ve met many great Dominants, but I’ve also come across a lot of fake doms. I have also heard from many submissives about their scary experiences with bad doms. I eventually realized that a “Fake dom vs Real Dom” article was necessary. Keep reading to learn the warning signs, red […]


