LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | IHEART Are you struggling to balance your 24/7 BDSM dynamic with everyday responsibilities like family, work, or school? When I first started my journey, balancing homeschooling my kids and my role as a full-time submissive was a significant challenge. In this article, I’ll share practical tips and […]
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Perfectionism in BDSM as a Dom or Sub (Ep. 39)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | IHEART Today we’re diving deep into a topic that hits very close to home for many of us in the BDSM community, whether you are a Dom or sub—perfectionism. We’ll explore the pitfalls of striving for perfection and how to overcome them for a fulfilling BDSM relationship. […]
Navigating BDSM with a Disability: Empowering Your Journey (Ep. 38)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | IHEART As someone who has been part of this lifestyle for over a decade and deals with chronic illnesses myself, including asthma, heart arrhythmias, a low immune system, and reflex sympathetic dystrophy (RSD), I understand the unique challenges disabled individuals face in our community. My goal today […]
Kink and Kids: DOs and DON’Ts for D/s Parents (Ep. 36)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | IHEART Parenting is a demanding role that requires consistency, love, and a lot of patience. Embracing a BDSM lifestyle, on the other hand, introduces a different set of dynamics that involve trust, boundaries, and profound communication. I am diving into how my partner and I balance these […]
BDSM Q&A: Fresh Ideas, Avoiding Burnout, Navigating DMs (Ep. 35)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | IHEART Let’s have a deep dive into the nuanced aspects of maintaining a vibrant and healthy Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship! This recent podcast episode was all about your questions and my responses. From enhancing your scenes and rituals to steering clear of burnout, we covered it all. Here, […]
SSC vs. RACK vs. PRICK: Which BDSM Safety Protocol Fits You? (Ep. 33)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today, we’re diving deep into a topic that often stirs up quite a bit of conversation within the BDSM community: the dynamics of communication and consent, and the use of different acronyms like SSC, RACK, PRICK, and others. Let’s explore these kink terms, my personal preferences, […]
BDSM in your 40s, 50s, and Beyond! (Ep. 32)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE We’re diving into a topic close to my heart—embracing BDSM as a lifestyle in your 40s, 50s, and even later. Many people think of BDSM as a young person’s game, but let me tell you, that’s far from the truth. Age is not only a number […]
BDSM’s Role in My Mental Health Journey (Ep. 30)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE We’re delving into the intricate ties between mental health and BDSM as I share a very personal narrative that some may find unexpected—how BDSM has emerged as a beacon of hope in my journey with mental health. The Silent Battle: Living with Mental Illness I’ve always […]