One of the most debated but rarely explained topics in the BDSM community is consensual non-consent, or CNC. The real definition of this type of D/s relationship is one of deep trust, not abuse. And even though the sex fantasy of rape play is pretty common, this kink is still a taboo topic. What is […]
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The Ultimate Guide to a Safe BDSM Lifestyle
In the BDSM community there is a saying: Safe, Sane, Consensual, or SSC. Whether you are new to the Dom/sub lifestyle or have been playing for a long time, this is the foundation for any D/s relationship. You should always follow these three principles and so should your partner. But what does Safe, Sane, Consensual […]
Total Power Exchange Relationships: Ultimate Guide
When I was a beginner submissive, I was eager to make my new BDSM lifestyle a 24/7 agreement. My Dominant and I had a contract, but I wanted to be a full-time slave, unable to ever be released. We read online about Total Power Exchange relationships and we knew this was our ultimate goal. I […]
BDSM Limits: Learn What’s Hard and Soft
Limits are a topic that is sure to come up in any Dom/sub relationship or contract negotiation. Even if you don’t have a BDSM partner yet, it’s good to have your boundaries clear in mind so you’ll be prepared when you’re ready to start playing. But what exactly is the difference between hard and soft […]
