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BDSM for ADHD and Autism: Build a Dynamic That Fits (Ep. 85)
Kink isn’t one-size-fits-all—especially for neurodivergent minds! Here’s how to create a BDSM dynamic that fits your unique brain and needs…
Why BDSM Works Better Than Therapy (For Some People) (Ep. 83)
Therapy isn’t the only path to healing—sometimes BDSM offers what talk therapy can’t. Discover how kink can transform your journey and…
5 BDSM Scene Ideas You’ll Want To Try Tonight (Ep. 82)
Make your BDSM scenes unforgettable—no dungeon or hours of planning required! Try these 5 easy, hot Dom/sub ideas to connect tonight and…
10 Most Popular Kinks (Are Yours on the List?) (Ep. 75)
Exploring kinks can feel daunting, but they’re more common than you think! Uncover the top 10 kinks everyone secretly loves and start your journey…
5 Sensation Play Tips for an Unforgettable Experience (Ep. 74)
Enhance your BDSM scenes with sensation play! Learn five game-changing tips to make every touch, tease, and anticipation unforgettable…
Why BDSM Turns You On: The Psychology of Kink (Ep. 71)
Uncover the psychology behind BDSM and what truly excites your brain. From endorphins to taboos, dive into the pleasure and emotional release of kink…
Beducated Review – Plus Coupon Code!
As a Dom/sub couple, my partner and I are always looking for ways to explore our sexuality and improve our intimate relationship. One of the resources we’ve found incredibly helpful in this regard is Beducated. Keep reading for my complete Beducated review, and also get your coupon code for a subscription discount. My Honest Beducated […]
Check Off Your Dom Sub Living Kinky Bingo Card
You did a lot of kinky things this year. What did you check off your BDSM bucket list? There’s no way to sugarcoat it. From a messy political election, the spectacle of the Olympics, and whispers of a possible bird flu pandemic, 2024 has been a rollercoaster of a year. But through all the hardships, […]
10 Dom/sub Ideas for Public Spaces – No One Will Notice! (Ep. 58)
Discover 10 subtle ways to maintain your Dom sub dynamic in public without drawing unwanted attention. Learn how to integrate these practices seamlessly and…
Frightening Fantasies: Exploring Darker Desires in BDSM (Ep. 55)
Explore intense, dark fantasies in a safe, consensual way! Learn how to communicate, set boundaries, and embrace your desires at Dom Sub Living Podcast…
Why Kink and Politics Can’t Be Separated and What It Means for You (Ep. 54)
Discover how politics and kink intersect, affecting safe spaces and inclusivity. Explore the impact of legalities, censorship, and advocacy in today’s episode…
Is BDSM Compatible with Christianity? The Surprising Truth (Ep. 51)
Reconciling BDSM with Christianity can be tough, but understanding scripture can help! Dive into the Dom Sub Living Podcast to explore faith and desires…
The BDSM Olympics: Top 10 Kinky Skills Revealed (Ep. 43)
Master the art of BDSM with our kink Olympic decathlon! Dive into rope bondage, impact play, sensory deprivation, and more to elevate your scenes and…
BDSM Degradation & Humiliation Kink: Ideas & Tips (Ep. 37)
Navigating degradation and humiliation in BDSM can be thrilling yet challenging. Learn to explore safely with tips, ideas, and expert advice in…
What Is Shibari? A Deep Dive into Japanese Rope Bondage
Unraveling the threads of different kink practices, we stumble upon the art form of Japanese rope bondage, raising the question: What is Shibari BDSM? In this article, we’ll untangle the complexities of Japanese bondage, highlighting the essential aspects of safety, consent, and the intimate connection between the Rigger and the model. Get ready to learn […]
Types of Bondage: A Journey into the Realm of Restraint
Embarking on a journey into the realm of BDSM can be thrilling, exhilarating and, for some, a little intimidating. One essential aspect that often piques fascination is all the different types of bondage. We’ll explore the vast variations of bondage types. From Shibari bondage, predicament bondage, to even torture bondage, each method serves a unique […]
What is a Rope Bunny? Unraveling this Kinky Rope Bondage Role
When someone starts exploring the world of BDSM, they often come across vast terminology. One of the questions I get asked a lot is, What is a rope bunny? In this article we’ll dive into this rewarding role, and I’ll even share my favorite bondage tie and top rope bondage technique tips to help you […]
The Ultimate BDSM Checklist for Kinks, Limits & More
(Free Printable Kink Checklist!) When you’re engaging in the kink lifestyle, it’s important to have a BDSM checklist. You probably already have a basic BDSM kink list that you found when you first began your journey. However, it’s essential to have one that is reputable and comprehensible. A good kink checklist will also help you […]
New BDSM Trends and Predictions for 2024 (Ep. 13)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE We’ve seen a lot of changes and emerging trends in the world of kink, and I’m here to give you a sneak peek into what’s in store for the year ahead. So, grab your favorite paddle, and let’s dive into the state of BDSM and […]
What’s Coming in 2024 for the Podcast and Dom Sub Living (Ep. 11)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE I can’t wait to share with you some exciting updates and plans for the upcoming year! 2023 has been quite a journey. As we step into 2024, I wanted to take a moment to give you a sneak peek into what’s coming up at Dom […]
How to Create Meaningful Traditions for Your D/s Dynamic (Ep. 6)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE As you approach the holiday season, it’s natural to shift your focus toward family gatherings, festive decorations, and gift exchanges. However, it’s important for you not to forget about your BDSM dynamic and the unique bond you share with your partner. So, let’s explore some […]
Mastering Dominance: An In-Depth Look at the Different Types of Doms
In the world of BDSM, Dominants play a pivotal role in guiding and leading their submissive partners. But did you know that there are different types of Doms with distinct approaches and styles? Examples can include Primal Dom, Gentle Dom, Part-Time Master, and Kinky Dom (just to name a few). In this article, we’ll explore […]
Age Play Unleashed: DDlg Rules, Rewards and Punishments for Littles
Daddy Dom/little girl (DDlg) relationships are a subculture of BDSM. They often involve age play, where one partner takes on the role of a “little” and the other that of a caregiver. Within this dynamic, there is usually a set of DDlg rules for littles, chores, and even DDlg punishments and rewards. In this article, […]
Ultimate Guide to Common BDSM Terms
When I first started exploring BDSM, I quickly realized that beyond the dynamics and experiences, there was an entire BDSM language that felt like a secret code. From countless acronyms to nuanced terms, BDSM terminology can be overwhelming, especially for newbies. I remember feeling a bit lost, like I was in a foreign country without […]
The Importance of BDSM Education
A BDSM relationship is a consensual dynamic that involves elements of power play and sensory experiences. Taking a “How to learn BDSM class” can be a lot of fun and a great way to explore your sexuality, but it’s important to approach this lifestyle seriously and with safety in mind. In this article, we’ll explore […]
How to go from Vanilla to BDSM and Kink
One of the questions I get asked the most is, “How do I go from vanilla to BDSM?” (The definition of vanilla is plain, normal, or boring.) Maybe the person read the book 50 Shades of Grey, or wants to incorporate kink into their relationship or sex life to bring more meaning to it. It […]
What’s Your BDSM Role? Take the Free BDSM Quiz
Discover your Dominant or submissive personality with our trusted free BDSM quiz — designed for beginners and seasoned players alike. This fun, inclusive BDSM personality test has helped over 10,000 kinksters identify their D/s roles, unlock desires, and deepen their relationships. Take this BDSM test and get instant access to your customized plan. What Our […]
What is a Switch in Bed? The Guide to How to Be a Switch
What is a “switch” in bed? When most people think of a BDSM relationship, they usually only think of the Dominant and submissive roles (typically a guy and a girl). The truth is, there are many shades of gray on the kink spectrum. Many people (even vanilla ones) enjoy being what’s called a “switch,” and […]
What is BDSM CNC Kink? Consensual Non-Consent Explained by Embracing Trust and Connection.
One of the most debated but rarely explained topics in the BDSM community is consensual non-consent. The real definition of this type of D/s relationship is one of deep trust, not abuse. And even though the CNC sex fantasy is pretty common, CNC kink/CNC fetish are still a taboo topic. Let’s look more closely, including […]