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Rules

How to Train Your Sub (Ep. 90)

How to Train Your Sub

Training your sub isn’t about punishments—it’s about building trust, habits, and real connection in your dynamic. Discover practical tips and rituals as you…

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3 BDSM Mistakes I Made (That Almost Ruined My Journey!) (Ep. 73)

3 BDSM Mistakes I Made (That Almost Ruined My Journey!)

Discover 3 key BDSM mistakes to avoid, like prioritizing rules over connection and ignoring your needs. Learn how to navigate with confidence and…

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How to Negotiate a BDSM Relationship That Truly Works (Ep. 66)

How to Negotiate a BDSM Relationship That Truly Works

In BDSM, negotiation is key to aligning desires and boundaries. Want to master your dynamic? Learn the six essential steps to a successful negotiation and…

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5 BDSM Experts Reveal the #1 Thing They Wish They Knew (Ep. 65)

5 BDSM Experts Reveal the #1 Thing They Wish They Knew Before Starting

Discover what every kink expert wishes they knew before starting BDSM! Insightful, heartfelt advice from top educators to help you embrace your journey and…

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How to Handle Dom/sub Conflict Without Breaking the Dynamic (Ep. 63)

Conflict in Dom/sub dynamics can undermine relationships if not handled carefully. Learn how to maintain balance and restore roles during disputes…

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How to Build BDSM Protocols to Deepen Your D/s Relationship (Ep. 52)

Discover how simple protocols can enrich your Dom/sub dynamic through structure and connection. Learn why starting small and staying consistent matters…

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SSC vs. RACK vs. PRICK: Which BDSM Safety Protocol Fits You? (Ep. 33)

SSC vs. RACK vs. PRICK: Which Safety Protocol Fits You?

LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today, we’re diving deep into a topic that often stirs up quite a bit of conversation within the BDSM community: the dynamics of communication and consent, and the use of different acronyms like SSC, RACK, PRICK, and others. Let’s explore these kink terms, my personal preferences, […]

Tagged With: BDSM, Beginner, Definition, Rules, Safety

Overcoming Dom/sub Mindset Struggles with Leann Herron (Ep. 16)

Overcoming Dom/sub Mindset Struggles with Leann Herron

LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE In this episode, I take us back to the Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit, where I had the pleasure of interviewing the amazing Leann Herron from Finding Resilience with Leann. Leann is not your average guest; she’s a sought-after educator, a certified health and life coach, […]

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How to Create Meaningful Traditions for Your D/s Dynamic (Ep. 6)

LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE As you approach the holiday season, it’s natural to shift your focus toward family gatherings, festive decorations, and gift exchanges. However, it’s important for you not to forget about your BDSM dynamic and the unique bond you share with your partner. So, let’s explore some […]

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Age Play Unleashed: DDlg Rules, Rewards and Punishments for Littles

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Daddy Dom/little girl (DDlg) relationships are a subculture of BDSM. They often involve age play, where one partner takes on the role of a “little” and the other that of a caregiver. Within this dynamic, there is usually a set of DDlg rules for littles, chores, and even DDlg punishments and rewards. In this article, […]

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What is DDlg? Daddy Dom/little girl Ultimate Guide

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What is DDlg?  Keep reading to learn all about the rules, definition of “little space”, Daddy dominant traits, and get new ideas, so you can enjoy ageplay responsibly. 

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BDSM Rituals & Why You Need Them

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BDSM rituals are an important part of any healthy Dom/sub relationship. They help the Dominant and submissive remember their roles and can be a way to stay centered and focused. But creating powerful and easy Dom/sub rituals (that don’t fizzle out) can be challenging. Read on to discover proven examples of D/s rules and protocols, […]

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7 Rules for BDSM Long-Distance Relationships

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BDSM long-distance relationships are hard, especially for those that are Dom/sub. It can be difficult to keep the dynamic going when you’re apart, and problems and issues arise. There’s also a lot of bad advice and tips on the internet. But even if you’re apart for just a day, or if circumstances make it so […]

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