The top BDSM & Kink podcast that teaches you the skills behind power dynamics in the bedroom. Learn how to improve your Dom/sub devotion, get out of the vanilla rut, embrace kink, and make BDSM a thrilling lifestyle.
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Never miss an episode! Hear about the latest in-depth topics on our weekly kinky podcast:
What People Get Wrong About Total Power Exchange (Ep. 88)
Total power exchange (TPE) can sound extreme, but is it really? Alesandra debunks myths and shares real-life tips for building consensual TPE dynamics…
10 Taboo Kinks: Which Are Normal vs. Truly Dangerous? (Ep. 87)
Your darkest fantasies are more normal than you think! Discover which taboo kinks are safe, which are risky, and how to explore them without shame…
BDSM for ADHD and Autism: Build a Dynamic That Fits (Ep. 85)
Kink isn’t one-size-fits-all—especially for neurodivergent minds! Here’s how to create a BDSM dynamic that fits your unique brain and needs…
Soft Doms Are In—What Gentle Domination Looks Like (Ep. 84)
Not every Dom is harsh or intense—gentle domination leads with care and connection. Discover why soft Doms are on the rise and how to embrace this style…
Why BDSM Works Better Than Therapy (For Some People) (Ep. 83)
Therapy isn’t the only path to healing—sometimes BDSM offers what talk therapy can’t. Discover how kink can transform your journey and…
5 BDSM Scene Ideas You’ll Want To Try Tonight (Ep. 82)
Make your BDSM scenes unforgettable—no dungeon or hours of planning required! Try these 5 easy, hot Dom/sub ideas to connect tonight and…
BDSM & Polyamory: Master Multiple Power Dynamics Without Drama (Ep. 81)
Balancing BDSM and polyamory can feel complex, but clear rules can help. Discover Alesandra’s roadmap to juggling DS dynamics without the chaos…
AI in BDSM: Can a Robot Really Be Your Sub? (Ep. 80)
AI is revolutionizing BDSM dynamics with AI-driven Doms and subs. But is tech enhancing kink or replacing real intimacy? Dive into Dom Sub Living to explore…
Dominants vs. Submissives: Who Really Has It Harder? (Ep. 79)
Navigating Dom sub dynamics: Who really bears the heavier load? Unveiling the challenges each role faces and the journey to find balance and growth…
Popular Kinky Podcast Episodes
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Meet the Host of The Dom Sub Living Podcast

In an era where “Fifty Shades of Grey” seems to be the leading message for kinksters, I set out to shift the conversation.
What started with a blog resource for kinksters of all kinds has evolved into something that’s so much more. I run Dom Sub Living to be a resource for everyone wishing for a better BDSM lifestyle. Our bondage podcast episodes are just an extension of that mission!
On our kink friendly podcast, we dig deep into mastering your Dom/sub mindset and kink skills. Together, we talk about topics that will deepen your connection with your partner.
Discover topics like breaking free from the vanilla rut. Learn the secrets of unlocking your true potential as a Dominant or submissive. Discover how to make BDSM a thrilling lifestyle. It’s all here in our kink podcast.
In addition to teaching over 10,000 students through my online courses, I’m also a 24/7 submissive. With over a decade of hands-on experience in the BDSM lifestyle, I’m eager to share all I’ve learned. This kinky podcast is just an extension of my commitment to the BDSM community.
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