The top BDSM & Kink podcast that teaches you how to improve your Dom/sub devotion, get out of the vanilla rut, embrace kink, and make BDSM a thrilling lifestyle.
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10 Dom/sub Ideas for Public Spaces – No One Will Notice! (Ep. 58)
Discover 10 subtle ways to maintain your Dom sub dynamic in public without drawing unwanted attention. Learn how to integrate these practices seamlessly and…
Dom Drop 101: Support Strategies Every Sub Should Know (Ep. 57)
Explore the complexities of Dom drop and learn how to offer support, reassurance, and aftercare for dominants. Navigate challenges and rebuild your dynamic by…
Punishment or Play? How to Know the Difference in BDSM (Ep. 56)
Understanding the difference between punishment and play in BDSM can prevent misunderstandings and build trust. Learn how to navigate these dynamics and…
Frightening Fantasies: Exploring Darker Desires in BDSM (Ep. 55)
Explore intense, dark fantasies in a safe, consensual way! Learn how to communicate, set boundaries, and embrace your desires at Dom Sub Living Podcast…
Why Kink and Politics Can’t Be Separated and What It Means for You (Ep. 54)
Discover how politics and kink intersect, affecting safe spaces and inclusivity. Explore the impact of legalities, censorship, and advocacy in today’s episode…
Submissive Training Secrets: Mastering Your Role in the BDSM Lifestyle (Ep. 53)
Discover the secrets to effective submissive training! Learn how to personalize your dynamic and ensure growth in your BDSM relationship…
How to Build BDSM Protocols to Deepen Your D/s Relationship (Ep. 52)
Discover how simple protocols can enrich your Dom/sub dynamic through structure and connection. Learn why starting small and staying consistent matters…
Is BDSM Compatible with Christianity? The Surprising Truth (Ep. 51)
Reconciling BDSM with Christianity can be tough, but understanding scripture can help! Dive into the Dom Sub Living Podcast to explore faith and desires…
BDSM Scene Structure 101: Step-by-Step from Start to Finish (Ep. 50)
Crafting the perfect BDSM scene involves pleasure, restraint, pain, and constant communication. Key elements include mood setting, improvisation, and aftercare…
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Meet the Host of The Dom Sub Living Podcast
Hi, I’m Alesandra Madison.
In an era where “Fifty Shades of Grey” seems to be the leading message for kinksters, I set out to shift the conversation.
On the podcast, we dig deep into mastering your Dom/sub mindset and kink skills. Together, we talk about topics like breaking free from the vanilla rut, unlocking your true potential as a Dominant or submissive, and making BDSM a thrilling lifestyle.
In addition to teaching over 10,000 students through my online courses, I’m also a 24/7 submissive with over a decade of hands-on experience in the BDSM lifestyle.
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