The top BDSM & Kink podcast that teaches you the skills behind power dynamics in the bedroom. Learn how to improve your Dom/sub devotion, get out of the vanilla rut, embrace kink, and make BDSM a thrilling lifestyle.
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Popular Kinky Podcast Episodes
Never miss an episode! Hear about the latest in-depth topics on our weekly kinky podcast:
AI in BDSM: Can a Robot Really Be Your Sub? (Ep. 80)
AI is revolutionizing BDSM dynamics with AI-driven Doms and subs. But is tech enhancing kink or replacing real intimacy? Dive into Dom Sub Living to explore…
Dominants vs. Submissives: Who Really Has It Harder? (Ep. 79)
Navigating Dom sub dynamics: Who really bears the heavier load? Unveiling the challenges each role faces and the journey to find balance and growth…
How to Be a More Confident Dominant (Ep. 78)
To master dominance, focus on presence, trust, and leadership, not volume. Harness your style to confidently lead and build trust in your dynamic…
50 Game-Changing BDSM Tips in 15 Minutes (Ep. 77)
Unlock the top 50 BDSM tips for connection, exploration, and pleasure. From communication to aftercare, discover how to deepen your experiences…
10 Most Popular Kinks (Are Yours on the List?) (Ep. 75)
Exploring kinks can feel daunting, but they’re more common than you think! Uncover the top 10 kinks everyone secretly loves and start your journey…
5 Sensation Play Tips for an Unforgettable Experience (Ep. 74)
Enhance your BDSM scenes with sensation play! Learn five game-changing tips to make every touch, tease, and anticipation unforgettable…
3 BDSM Mistakes I Made (That Almost Ruined My Journey!) (Ep. 73)
Discover 3 key BDSM mistakes to avoid, like prioritizing rules over connection and ignoring your needs. Learn how to navigate with confidence and…
Why BDSM Turns You On: The Psychology of Kink (Ep. 71)
Uncover the psychology behind BDSM and what truly excites your brain. From endorphins to taboos, dive into the pleasure and emotional release of kink…
Our 24/7 Total Power Exchange Relationship: How We Built It (Ep. 70)
TPE is about trust and freedom, not control. Learn the steps to building a fulfilling 24/7 relationship dynamic and how it can empower both partners…
Popular Kinky Podcast Episodes
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Meet the Host of The Dom Sub Living Podcast

In an era where “Fifty Shades of Grey” seems to be the leading message for kinksters, I set out to shift the conversation.
What started with a blog resource for kinksters of all kinds has evolved into something that’s so much more. I run Dom Sub Living to be a resource for everyone wishing for a better BDSM lifestyle. Our bondage podcast episodes are just an extension of that mission!
On our kink friendly podcast, we dig deep into mastering your Dom/sub mindset and kink skills. Together, we talk about topics that will deepen your connection with your partner.
Discover topics like breaking free from the vanilla rut. Learn the secrets of unlocking your true potential as a Dominant or submissive. Discover how to make BDSM a thrilling lifestyle. It’s all here in our kink podcast.
In addition to teaching over 10,000 students through my online courses, I’m also a 24/7 submissive. With over a decade of hands-on experience in the BDSM lifestyle, I’m eager to share all I’ve learned. This kinky podcast is just an extension of my commitment to the BDSM community.
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