Dom Sub Living reader survey pic

[Infographic] 2020 Reader Survey Results

Dom Sub Living reader survey pic

A couple weeks ago, I asked all of my subscribers if you would do me a favor and fill out my annual reader survey. The survey was filled with questions from “what’s your biggest BDSM challenge” to “which social media platform do you prefer”, and each of your answers helped me better understand how you feel about and interact with this blog.

HUNDREDS of people took the survey and aside from a couple constructive criticisms, the results were overwhelming positive. I was very moved by the fact that this space actually means something to so many of you. Here are some of my favorite comments:

  • “I love your site!”
  • “I am so thankful I found you.”
  • “You are very helpful! Thank you for all that you do.”
  • “You’re so amazing!”

This has really made my day! I’m grateful for the magnitude of love and support everyone shared in your responses and messages on the survey. Thank you!

Below, I’ve compiled statistics for some of the most interesting or relevant questions that everyone answered. I also included some things that surprised me at the very bottom. I hope you enjoy uncovering these results as much as I did! 

1. Which of the following options best describes you?

BDSM survey lifestyle

It’s so great to see that a good amount of you are involved in a BDSM lifestyle either full-time or part-time!  Hopefully we can get many more enjoying it too.

2. Which of the following are you most interested in?

BDSM activities interests

The top four topics you love are bondage, submission, discipline/punishments, and dominance, so I’m definitely aiming to add more of them into my content. Fortunately, these are the things I like to write about most anyways!

3. Do you consider yourself to be a…

BDSM roles titles identify

It’s awesome that we have such a wide variety of readers.  I’m so glad the website is helping not just Doms and subs, but switches, vanillas, and unsures too!

Other surprising/interesting things:

  1. 54% of you prefer to get your information from text, such as blog posts, instead of audio or videos (but I may be working on a podcast soon!).
  2. Quite a few of you said that you’re in a long distance relationship. Awesome! Make sure you check out my LDR tips here.
  3. 57% of you enjoy YouTube for social media (but the second most popular was Facebook at 50%!).
  4. Dom Sub Living now has over 12,000 subscribers, and over 800 have enrolled in Dom Sub Training!

I hope you enjoyed seeing the results as much as I did. Thank you again for everyone who took part in the survey.  Make sure you sign up for my newsletter so you don’t miss the next one! Click here to sign up

What are your thoughts? Anything surprise you? Comment below.

Keep reading:  Your top 8 questions answered>>

10 thoughts on “[Infographic] 2020 Reader Survey Results”

  1. I am so happy the survey went so well. It is nice to see that there are quite a few submissive out there and that there are a lot more people interested in the Ls. The only thing I wish was that in some of the great info on the site and in the blurbs there was one that touched on “what if a session ends not so well for Dom/sub. D ends session and what to do. This happened to me and I am still a bit insure why the session ended.. this was the first time I have had a unsatisfactory session for my Sir. The first time I was not able to finish my Sir.

    1. I’m so glad you enjoyed the results, Miceala! And I’m sorry to hear that you had an unsatisfactory session with your Sir. Not every scene is going to end perfectly, but if you’re still insecure about it make sure to take the time to journal your thoughts and feelings. ????

  2. I have enjoyed all that I have learned from all that I have read and researched from here. Also I totally agree with all the responses so far. My personal issues is things going vanilla with my submissive due to body changes and I have to step back and take care of her during these changes. I do study her all the time.

  3. I have been a subscriber of yours for sometime now and I have made good use of the information you provide. Joining Dom/ sub training class has been quite interesting and makes perfect sense creating a wonderful relationship of dedication. I have not completed the class yet, but I soon will and would really like to thank you

  4. I really like the statistics. This is something needed for our community. I was pleasantly surprised and enjoyed seeing the results. Please, keep the surveys coming!

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