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Podcast Episodes
The BDSM Olympics: Top 10 Kinky Skills Revealed (Ep. 43)
Master the art of BDSM with our kink Olympic decathlon! Dive into rope bondage, impact play, sensory deprivation, and more to elevate your scenes and…
4 Ways to Build Trust in a Dom/sub Relationship (Ep. 42)
We’re delving into the core of trust in D/s relationships, sharing actionable tips on building and maintaining trust to create a deeper bond…
From BDSM Newbie to Expert: Navigating the Stages of Your D/s Journey (Ep. 41)
Curious about BDSM but unsure where to start? Or ready to advance your skills? We’re guiding you through the stages from newbie to expert and…
How to Balance a 24/7 BDSM Dynamic with Vanilla Life (Ep. 40)
Balancing a 24/7 BDSM dynamic with everyday responsibilities can be overwhelming. Discover practical tips for harmony between your vanilla life and BDSM desires…
Perfectionism in BDSM as a Dom or Sub (Ep. 39)
Feeling overwhelmed by perfectionism in your BDSM journey? We’re sharing tips on embracing imperfection and announcing a free 4-day boot camp to help…
Navigating BDSM with a Disability: Empowering Your Journey (Ep. 38)
We’re exploring how inclusivity enriches the BDSM community, with practical tips on adapting to disabilities and embracing your journey…
BDSM Degradation & Humiliation Kink: Ideas & Tips (Ep. 37)
Navigating degradation and humiliation in BDSM can be thrilling yet challenging. Learn to explore safely with tips, ideas, and expert advice in…
Kink and Kids: DOs and DON’Ts for D/s Parents (Ep. 36)
Balancing parental duties with BDSM can be challenging. Learn tips on privacy, consent, and maintaining your dynamic while raising kids. Find out more about…
BDSM Q&A: Fresh Ideas, Avoiding Burnout, Navigating DMs (Ep. 35)
Let’s have a deep dive into the nuanced aspects of maintaining a vibrant and healthy Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship! This recent podcast episode was all about your questions and my responses.
Bisexual Submissive in a BDSM Dynamic: My Story (Ep. 34)
Navigating life as a bi submissive in a triad can be both exhilarating and challenging. Let’s explore stereotypes, acceptance, and finding balance…
SSC vs. RACK vs. PRICK: Which BDSM Safety Protocol Fits You? (Ep. 33)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today, we’re diving deep into a topic that often stirs up quite a bit of conversation within the BDSM community: the dynamics of communication and consent, and the use of different acronyms like SSC, RACK, PRICK, and others. Let’s explore these kink terms, my personal preferences, […]
BDSM in your 40s, 50s, and Beyond! (Ep. 32)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE We’re diving into a topic close to my heart—embracing BDSM as a lifestyle in your 40s, 50s, and even later. Many people think of BDSM as a young person’s game, but let me tell you, that’s far from the truth. Age is not only a number […]
Age Gaps in BDSM Relationships (Ep. 31)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today, we’re tackling a topic I’ve shied away from due to its inherent controversy and my personal biases: age gap relationships within the BDSM community. Navigating Age Gaps: A Personal and Cultural Perspective Let’s start with a little backstory. My interest in age-gap relationships isn’t just […]
BDSM’s Role in My Mental Health Journey (Ep. 30)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE We’re delving into the intricate ties between mental health and BDSM as I share a very personal narrative that some may find unexpected—how BDSM has emerged as a beacon of hope in my journey with mental health. The Silent Battle: Living with Mental Illness I’ve always […]
Exploring the Depths of BDSM with Just Press Foreplay (Ep. 29)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE I sat down with Suzii from Just Press Foreplay to peel back the layers of a Dominant-submissive (D/s) dynamic. We can’t stress enough the importance of communication and regular check-ins. It’s about understanding each other’s depths—one question, one journal entry at a time. This foundational practice […]
4 Ways to Be a Better Submissive (Ep. 28)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE I’m thrilled to share this episode on how to be a better submissive, which is packed with insights to help you blossom in your BDSM journey. So, let’s dive into the art of becoming an even better sub! Improving Your Role as a Submissive: Free Cheat […]
Why You Need a BDSM Mentor (Ep. 27)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Navigating the world of BDSM can be both exhilarating and daunting, and you’re not alone if you’ve ever felt stuck or overwhelmed. Today, we’re diving deep into why mentorship can be a beacon of light on your kinky path, and how to discern a genuine mentor […]
Connecting with the Kink Community (Ep. 26)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE We’re diving deep into the heart of community within our diverse scene—discussing everything from munches to dungeons and everything in between. So, let’s unravel some of those discussions here in a way that I hope will empower you to step out and connect with your fellow […]
Foolproof BDSM Advice (Ep. 25)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today we’re delving deep into a subject that is both personal and pivotal for anyone who is exploring the realms of BDSM. As someone who has navigated the complexities of power dynamics, I’ve heard my fair share of advice – some good, and some outright dangerous. […]
What No One Tells You About Dom/Sub Relationships (Ep. 24)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE We’re diving deep into the less-discussed topics of BDSM relationships—a world far beyond the staged perfection of a dungeon scene. As someone who has transitioned from a vanilla to a BDSM relationship, I have firsthand experience with the raw complexities this lifestyle entails. So, let’s cut […]
Surprising Signs You Might Be a Switch (Ep. 23)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today I am diving into the thrilling world of being a switch in the BDSM community. In this blog post, we’ll explore the surprising signs that suggest you might be a switch, and I’ll share some insightful experiences and perspectives on the fluidity of power, desire, […]
4 Ways to Be a Better Dominant (Ep. 22)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today, I’ll be unraveling the secrets to becoming a great Dominant. Whether you’re just beginning your journey into BDSM or you’re a seasoned practitioner, these insights will revolutionize your approach and deepen the dynamic with your submissive. 1. Cultivating Effective Communication Effective communication lays the foundation […]
The Truth about BDSM Tradwives (Ep. 21)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE Today, I want to dive deep into the differences and similarities between the BDSM and Tradwife dynamics. As a submissive and long-time advocate for informed and consensual relationship dynamics, I find it essential to understand and respect various lifestyle choices, not just those under the […]
Mastering Daily BDSM Consistency: Try These Tricks! (Ep. 20)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE Are you ready to dive deep into the intricate world of maintaining daily consistency in your BDSM relationship? Are you struggling to integrate the power and passion of your dynamic into the chaos of everyday life? Fear not, for I’ve got some tricks up my […]
5 Newbie Mistakes I Didn’t Expect in My BDSM Journey (Ep. 19)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE In this episode, I share some embarrassing but essential reflections on the newbie mistakes I made when I first ventured into the captivating world of BDSM. I believe that by unveiling my missteps, I can help others steer clear of similar awkward situations and find […]
Helping Your Partner Embrace the BDSM Lifestyle (Ep. 18)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE I’m thrilled to dive into a topic that’s essential for the well-being of any BDSM relationship – helping your partner become more interested and comfortable in the lifestyle. Whether you’re a Dominant or a submissive, navigating this journey with your significant other should be about […]
Finding Kinky Love: How to Find a D/s Partner (Ep. 17)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE Today, we’re diving into a topic that’s on many of your minds – finding a legitimate Dom or sub partner. Whether you’re single, navigating the challenges of the BDSM community, or seeking a third partner to enhance your dynamic, I’ve got you covered. Let’s explore […]
Overcoming Dom/sub Mindset Struggles with Leann Herron (Ep. 16)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE In this episode, I take us back to the Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit, where I had the pleasure of interviewing the amazing Leann Herron from Finding Resilience with Leann. Leann is not your average guest; she’s a sought-after educator, a certified health and life coach, […]
Our BIGGEST Announcement Yet (Ep. 15)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE Hey there, kinky friends! I am ecstatic to share some groundbreaking news with you—something that our team at Dom Sub Living has been tirelessly working on behind the scenes. This is a game-changer, a revolutionary opportunity that will redefine the way BDSM education happens. Are […]