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Long-Distance Relationships

BDSM Submissive Punishments: How to Punish a Sub Effectively

Tips for submissive punishments

Most Dominant/submissive relationships in BDSM usually have varying types of submissive punishments. And if rules are broken, the next steps are more than clear. Correction (even over text) is needed from time to time when a sub breaks the rules. However, many Doms struggle with ideas for knowing how to punish a sub. This is […]

Tagged With: Discipline, Dominant, Ideas, Long-Distance Relationships, Punishments, Submissive

5 Ways to Master Long-Distance D/s Relationships (Ep. 14)

5 Ways to Master Long-Distance D/s Relationships

LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE In this episode, I share my experience navigating a long-distance D/s dynamic with my Dom while he commutes from Southern California to the San Francisco Bay Area. It hasn’t been without its challenges, but we’ve managed to revamp our dynamic and make things better than […]

Tagged With: BDSM, LDR, Long-Distance Relationships, Relationships

7 Rules for BDSM Long-Distance Relationships

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BDSM long-distance relationships are hard, especially for those that are Dom/sub. It can be difficult to keep the dynamic going when you’re apart, and problems and issues arise. There’s also a lot of bad advice and tips on the internet. But even if you’re apart for just a day, or if circumstances make it so […]

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