After 100 episodes, Alesandra reveals the unexpected truths that make or break a BDSM lifestyle—and why learning and growth never stop in kink and…
Relationships
DDLG 101: The Truth About Being a Babygirl (Ep. 99)
DDLG dynamics go beyond outfits and rules—they’re about care, structure, and healing intimacy. Discover the real meaning behind caregiver relationships and…
Every Fake Dom Does This. (Ep. 96)
Spot the red flags in your DS relationship! Discover the top 5 mistakes fake Doms make—and how to create a safe, trusting dynamic instead…
7 Hidden Habits That Keep D/s Relationships Strong (Ep. 95)
Most Dom sub relationships start hot, then fizzle. Discover the 7 hidden habits thriving D/s couples commit to for lasting connection and growth…
Most BDSM Teachers Get This Completely Wrong (Ep. 94)
Most BDSM education is outdated or wrong—and it’s messing up real dynamics! Here are 10 myths hurting kink relationships and how to fix them…
How to Explore BDSM WITHOUT a Partner (Ep. 92)
Think you need a partner to explore BDSM? Think again! Discover how to build confidence and skills solo before finding your ideal Dom or sub and…
A Look Inside Our Total Power Exchange Relationship (Ep. 89)
Curious what 24/7 total power exchange (TPE) really looks like? Alesandra shares the real-life rituals, challenges, and connection behind the scenes…
What People Get Wrong About Total Power Exchange (Ep. 88)
Total power exchange (TPE) can sound extreme, but is it really? Alesandra debunks myths and shares real-life tips for building consensual TPE dynamics…
Why BDSM Works Better Than Therapy (For Some People) (Ep. 83)
Therapy isn’t the only path to healing—sometimes BDSM offers what talk therapy can’t. Discover how kink can transform your journey and…
BDSM & Polyamory: Master Multiple Power Dynamics Without Drama (Ep. 81)
Balancing BDSM and polyamory can feel complex, but clear rules can help. Discover Alesandra’s roadmap to juggling DS dynamics without the chaos…
AI in BDSM: Can a Robot Really Be Your Sub? (Ep. 80)
AI is revolutionizing BDSM dynamics with AI-driven Doms and subs. But is tech enhancing kink or replacing real intimacy? Dive into Dom Sub Living to explore…
3 BDSM Mistakes I Made (That Almost Ruined My Journey!) (Ep. 73)
Discover 3 key BDSM mistakes to avoid, like prioritizing rules over connection and ignoring your needs. Learn how to navigate with confidence and…
Our 24/7 Total Power Exchange Relationship: How We Built It (Ep. 70)
TPE is about trust and freedom, not control. Learn the steps to building a fulfilling 24/7 relationship dynamic and how it can empower both partners…
Beducated Review – Plus Coupon Code!
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Wearing a Collar 24/7 in My D/s Marriage: What It’s Really Like (Ep. 69)
Collars in D/s dynamics aren’t just symbols—they represent ownership, commitment, and trust. Discover the depth and meaning behind wearing a collar 24/7 in our latest episode…
Lost the Kinky Spark? Revive Your D/s Dynamic Today (Ep. 68)
Feeling stuck in your D/s relationship? You’re not alone. Life gets in the way, and suddenly the spark is gone. Let’s make your dynamic feel alive again and…
How to Write a BDSM Contract + Free Printable BDSM Contract Template
Have you considered adding a new layer of structure and reliability to your BDSM dynamic? Well, then you’ve come to the right place! It’s always a good idea to have a BDSM contract before you begin any new Dom/sub relationship. It spells out in detail what is expected of each person. It also keeps things safe […]
BDSM in Real Life: A Dom/sub Married Couple Shares Their Journey (Ep. 67)
Harlo and Adira share their journey in balancing BDSM roles with real-life responsibilities, offering tips on communication, mindset, and dealing with challenges…
How to Negotiate a BDSM Relationship That Truly Works (Ep. 66)
In BDSM, negotiation is key to aligning desires and boundaries. Want to master your dynamic? Learn the six essential steps to a successful negotiation and…
5 BDSM Experts Reveal the #1 Thing They Wish They Knew (Ep. 65)
Discover what every kink expert wishes they knew before starting BDSM! Insightful, heartfelt advice from top educators to help you embrace your journey and…
How to Handle Dom/sub Conflict Without Breaking the Dynamic (Ep. 63)
Conflict in Dom/sub dynamics can undermine relationships if not handled carefully. Learn how to maintain balance and restore roles during disputes…
Q&A With a 24/7 Submissive – Ask Me Anything! (Ep. 62)
Understanding D/s dynamics, maintaining trust, and proactive submission can be challenging yet rewarding! Explore key insights and tips to thrive in your dynamic…
Service-Oriented BDSM: Elevate Your Dom/sub Dynamic (Ep. 59)
Explore how service-oriented BDSM can deepen your dynamic. Discover intentional acts of service that enhance connection and appreciation in your relationship…
10 Dom/sub Ideas for Public Spaces – No One Will Notice! (Ep. 58)
Discover 10 subtle ways to maintain your Dom sub dynamic in public without drawing unwanted attention. Learn how to integrate these practices seamlessly and…
Frightening Fantasies: Exploring Darker Desires in BDSM (Ep. 55)
Explore intense, dark fantasies in a safe, consensual way! Learn how to communicate, set boundaries, and embrace your desires at Dom Sub Living Podcast…
Is BDSM Compatible with Christianity? The Surprising Truth (Ep. 51)
Reconciling BDSM with Christianity can be tough, but understanding scripture can help! Dive into the Dom Sub Living Podcast to explore faith and desires…
Vetting a Submissive? Avoid These 5 Red Flags Before You Commit (Ep. 48)
When vetting a sub, look out for inconsistency, boundary issues, and unwillingness to learn. A healthy D/s dynamic needs respect, trust, and communication…
Topping from the Bottom? Stop Sabotaging Your D/s Dynamic Now! (Ep. 47)
Is your DS dynamic secretly being sabotaged by topping from the bottom? Learn how to regain balance in your relationship and stop it before it wrecks everything…
Understanding Brats in BDSM: Embrace the Fun and Challenge! (Ep. 45)
Bratting can add playful energy to your BDSM dynamic, but how do you balance fun and respect? Learn effective ways to turn bratting into a positive force…
4 Ways to Build Trust in a Dom/sub Relationship (Ep. 42)
We’re delving into the core of trust in D/s relationships, sharing actionable tips on building and maintaining trust to create a deeper bond…