Discover 10 subtle ways to maintain your Dom sub dynamic in public without drawing unwanted attention. Learn how to integrate these practices seamlessly and…
Relationships
Frightening Fantasies: Exploring Darker Desires in BDSM (Ep. 55)
Explore intense, dark fantasies in a safe, consensual way! Learn how to communicate, set boundaries, and embrace your desires at Dom Sub Living Podcast…
Is BDSM Compatible with Christianity? The Surprising Truth (Ep. 51)
Reconciling BDSM with Christianity can be tough, but understanding scripture can help! Dive into the Dom Sub Living Podcast to explore faith and desires…
Vetting a Submissive? Avoid These 5 Red Flags Before You Commit (Ep. 48)
When vetting a sub, look out for inconsistency, boundary issues, and unwillingness to learn. A healthy D/s dynamic needs respect, trust, and communication…
Topping from the Bottom? Stop Sabotaging Your D/s Dynamic Now! (Ep. 47)
Is your DS dynamic secretly being sabotaged by topping from the bottom? Learn how to regain balance in your relationship and stop it before it wrecks everything…
Understanding Brats in BDSM: Embrace the Fun and Challenge! (Ep. 45)
Bratting can add playful energy to your BDSM dynamic, but how do you balance fun and respect? Learn effective ways to turn bratting into a positive force…
4 Ways to Build Trust in a Dom/sub Relationship (Ep. 42)
We’re delving into the core of trust in D/s relationships, sharing actionable tips on building and maintaining trust to create a deeper bond…
From BDSM Newbie to Expert: Navigating the Stages of Your D/s Journey (Ep. 41)
Curious about BDSM but unsure where to start? Or ready to advance your skills? We’re guiding you through the stages from newbie to expert and…
How to Balance a 24/7 BDSM Dynamic with Vanilla Life (Ep. 40)
Balancing a 24/7 BDSM dynamic with everyday responsibilities can be overwhelming. Discover practical tips for harmony between your vanilla life and BDSM desires…
Perfectionism in BDSM as a Dom or Sub (Ep. 39)
Feeling overwhelmed by perfectionism in your BDSM journey? We’re sharing tips on embracing imperfection and announcing a free 4-day boot camp to help…
BDSM Degradation & Humiliation Kink: Ideas & Tips (Ep. 37)
Navigating degradation and humiliation in BDSM can be thrilling yet challenging. Learn to explore safely with tips, ideas, and expert advice in…
Kink and Kids: DOs and DON’Ts for D/s Parents (Ep. 36)
Balancing parental duties with BDSM can be challenging. Learn tips on privacy, consent, and maintaining your dynamic while raising kids. Find out more about…
BDSM Q&A: Fresh Ideas, Avoiding Burnout, Navigating DMs (Ep. 35)
Let’s have a deep dive into the nuanced aspects of maintaining a vibrant and healthy Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship! This recent podcast episode was all about your questions and my responses.
BDSM in your 40s, 50s, and Beyond! (Ep. 32)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE We’re diving into a topic close to my heart—embracing BDSM as a lifestyle in your 40s, 50s, and even later. Many people think of BDSM as a young person’s game, but let me tell you, that’s far from the truth. Age is not only a number […]
Age Gaps in BDSM Relationships (Ep. 31)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today, we’re tackling a topic I’ve shied away from due to its inherent controversy and my personal biases: age gap relationships within the BDSM community. Navigating Age Gaps: A Personal and Cultural Perspective Let’s start with a little backstory. My interest in age-gap relationships isn’t just […]
BDSM’s Role in My Mental Health Journey (Ep. 30)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE We’re delving into the intricate ties between mental health and BDSM as I share a very personal narrative that some may find unexpected—how BDSM has emerged as a beacon of hope in my journey with mental health. The Silent Battle: Living with Mental Illness I’ve always […]
Exploring the Depths of BDSM with Just Press Foreplay (Ep. 29)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE I sat down with Suzii from Just Press Foreplay to peel back the layers of a Dominant-submissive (D/s) dynamic. We can’t stress enough the importance of communication and regular check-ins. It’s about understanding each other’s depths—one question, one journal entry at a time. This foundational practice […]
Why You Need a BDSM Mentor (Ep. 27)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Navigating the world of BDSM can be both exhilarating and daunting, and you’re not alone if you’ve ever felt stuck or overwhelmed. Today, we’re diving deep into why mentorship can be a beacon of light on your kinky path, and how to discern a genuine mentor […]
What No One Tells You About Dom/Sub Relationships (Ep. 24)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE We’re diving deep into the less-discussed topics of BDSM relationships—a world far beyond the staged perfection of a dungeon scene. As someone who has transitioned from a vanilla to a BDSM relationship, I have firsthand experience with the raw complexities this lifestyle entails. So, let’s cut […]
4 Ways to Be a Better Dominant (Ep. 22)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today, I’ll be unraveling the secrets to becoming a great Dominant. Whether you’re just beginning your journey into BDSM or you’re a seasoned practitioner, these insights will revolutionize your approach and deepen the dynamic with your submissive. 1. Cultivating Effective Communication Effective communication lays the foundation […]
The Truth about BDSM Tradwives (Ep. 21)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE Today, I want to dive deep into the differences and similarities between the BDSM and Tradwife dynamics. As a submissive and long-time advocate for informed and consensual relationship dynamics, I find it essential to understand and respect various lifestyle choices, not just those under the […]
Helping Your Partner Embrace the BDSM Lifestyle (Ep. 18)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE I’m thrilled to dive into a topic that’s essential for the well-being of any BDSM relationship – helping your partner become more interested and comfortable in the lifestyle. Whether you’re a Dominant or a submissive, navigating this journey with your significant other should be about […]
Finding Kinky Love: How to Find a D/s Partner (Ep. 17)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE Today, we’re diving into a topic that’s on many of your minds – finding a legitimate Dom or sub partner. Whether you’re single, navigating the challenges of the BDSM community, or seeking a third partner to enhance your dynamic, I’ve got you covered. Let’s explore […]
The Ultimate BDSM Checklist for Kinks, Limits & More
(Free Printable Kink Checklist!) When you’re engaging in the kink lifestyle, it’s important to have a BDSM checklist. You probably already have a basic BDSM kink list that you found when you first began your journey. However, you need to have one that is reputable and comprehensible. A good kink checklist will also help you […]
How to Write a BDSM Contract + Free Printable Template
It’s always a good idea to have a BDSM contract before you begin any new Dom/sub relationship. It’s always a good idea to have a BDSM contract before you begin any new Dom/sub relationship. It spells out in detail what is expected of each person. It also keeps things safe and consensual. Even if you […]
5 Ways to Master Long-Distance D/s Relationships (Ep. 14)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE In this episode, I share my experience navigating a long-distance D/s dynamic with my Dom while he commutes from Southern California to the San Francisco Bay Area. It hasn’t been without its challenges, but we’ve managed to revamp our dynamic and make things better than […]
3 Reasons Why Your D/s Relationship Keeps Failing (Ep. 9)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE On this episode, we dive into a topic that’s not often discussed openly in the lifestyle – failing D/s relationships. I know the disappointment, frustration, and self-blame many of you experience when a D/s relationship falters. But remember, you are not alone. Accurate Information for […]
Meet my Dom! Advice and Tips for Dominants (Ep. 7)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE I am excited to introduce my partner to you: Jay! Jay has been an integral part of my journey as a submissive, and today we will dive deep into our Dom/sub dynamic, and explore the challenges, triumphs, and growth we have experienced together as a […]
How to Create Meaningful Traditions for Your D/s Dynamic (Ep. 6)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE As you approach the holiday season, it’s natural to shift your focus toward family gatherings, festive decorations, and gift exchanges. However, it’s important for you not to forget about your BDSM dynamic and the unique bond you share with your partner. So, let’s explore some […]
3 Big Myths About BDSM That Are Holding You Back (Ep. 5)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE In this episode of my podcast, I share a personal story about the myths and limiting beliefs that held me back in the early stages of my own Dom/sub relationship. Today, I want to delve deeper into these myths and discuss how you can break […]