A few weeks ago, I asked all of my subscribers if you would do me a favor and fill out my annual reader survey. The survey was filled with questions from “what’s your biggest BDSM challenge” to “what kinks are you interested in”, and each of your answers helped me better understand how you feel about and […]
Lost the Kinky Spark? Revive Your D/s Dynamic Today (Ep. 68)
Feeling stuck in your D/s relationship? You’re not alone. Life gets in the way, and suddenly the spark is gone. Let’s make your dynamic feel alive again and…
How to Write a BDSM Contract + Free Printable BDSM Contract Template
Have you considered adding a new layer of structure and reliability to your BDSM dynamic? Well, then you’ve come to the right place! It’s always a good idea to have a BDSM contract before you begin any new Dom/sub relationship. It spells out in detail what is expected of each person. It also keeps things safe […]
BDSM in Real Life: A Dom/sub Married Couple Shares Their Journey (Ep. 67)
Harlo and Adira share their journey in balancing BDSM roles with real-life responsibilities, offering tips on communication, mindset, and dealing with challenges…
How to Negotiate a BDSM Relationship That Truly Works (Ep. 66)
In BDSM, negotiation is key to aligning desires and boundaries. Want to master your dynamic? Learn the six essential steps to a successful negotiation and…
5 BDSM Experts Reveal the #1 Thing They Wish They Knew (Ep. 65)
Discover what every kink expert wishes they knew before starting BDSM! Insightful, heartfelt advice from top educators to help you embrace your journey and…
BDSM Goals: The Kinkiest Bucket List You’ll Ever See (Ep. 64)
Looking to spice up your BDSM journey? Discover new ways to set thrilling, meaningful goals in your dynamic and build deeper connections. Curious how? Let’s dive in…
Check Off Your Dom Sub Living Kinky Bingo Card
You did a lot of kinky things this year. What did you check off your BDSM bucket list? There’s no way to sugarcoat it. From a messy political election, the spectacle of the Olympics, and whispers of a possible bird flu pandemic, 2024 has been a rollercoaster of a year. But through all the hardships, […]
How to Handle Dom/sub Conflict Without Breaking the Dynamic (Ep. 63)
Conflict in Dom/sub dynamics can undermine relationships if not handled carefully. Learn how to maintain balance and restore roles during disputes…
How to Be a Submissive in BDSM: Ultimate Guide on How to Be a Good Sub
Like anything in the power dynamics of an exploratory sex life, fulfilling a role can truly be transformative. It can set aside preconceptions or other baggage and let you and your partner whisk each other away to a world of untold pleasure. And it can help you tap into deeper needs and desires than you […]
Q&A With a 24/7 Submissive – Ask Me Anything! (Ep. 62)
Understanding D/s dynamics, maintaining trust, and proactive submission can be challenging yet rewarding! Explore key insights and tips to thrive in your dynamic…
Impact Play 101: 5 Beginner-Friendly Ideas to Try Now (Ep. 61)
Curious about Impact Play but not sure where to begin? Discover 5 simple, beginner-friendly ideas to make your experience safe, fun, and fulfilling with these tips and…
Exploring BDSM Roles: Which One Is Right for You? (Ep. 60)
Discover your BDSM identity with Dom Sub Living Podcast! Explore various roles like dominant, submissive, and switch to find what resonates with you…
Service-Oriented BDSM: Elevate Your Dom/sub Dynamic (Ep. 59)
Explore how service-oriented BDSM can deepen your dynamic. Discover intentional acts of service that enhance connection and appreciation in your relationship…
How to Safely Explore Humiliation in BDSM
Let’s imagine you want to shift the power dynamics in your bedroom. Specifically, so the scales are tipped a little bit toward or away from your partner. Let’s even imagine you want to introduce a hefty bit of negativity into that power shift. While those into vanilla sexual experiences might balk at such an idea, […]
An Introduction to High Protocol Kink: Rules and Rituals
Ready to kick your BDSM knowledge into overdrive? These days, BDSM isn’t quite the taboo subject it once was. Everyone, it seems (yes, even your grandmother), likely knows a thing or two about non-vanilla bedroom play. But that doesn’t mean that BDSM is widely understood. Yes, it’s true that zeitgeist moments like “50 Shades of […]
10 Dom/sub Ideas for Public Spaces – No One Will Notice! (Ep. 58)
Discover 10 subtle ways to maintain your Dom sub dynamic in public without drawing unwanted attention. Learn how to integrate these practices seamlessly and…
Dom Drop 101: Support Strategies Every Sub Should Know (Ep. 57)
Explore the complexities of Dom drop and learn how to offer support, reassurance, and aftercare for dominants. Navigate challenges and rebuild your dynamic by…
Punishment or Play? How to Know the Difference in BDSM (Ep. 56)
Understanding the difference between punishment and play in BDSM can prevent misunderstandings and build trust. Learn how to navigate these dynamics and…
Frightening Fantasies: Exploring Darker Desires in BDSM (Ep. 55)
Explore intense, dark fantasies in a safe, consensual way! Learn how to communicate, set boundaries, and embrace your desires at Dom Sub Living Podcast…
Why Kink and Politics Can’t Be Separated and What It Means for You (Ep. 54)
Discover how politics and kink intersect, affecting safe spaces and inclusivity. Explore the impact of legalities, censorship, and advocacy in today’s episode…
Submissive Training Secrets: Mastering Your Role in the BDSM Lifestyle (Ep. 53)
Discover the secrets to effective submissive training! Learn how to personalize your dynamic and ensure growth in your BDSM relationship…
How to Build BDSM Protocols to Deepen Your D/s Relationship (Ep. 52)
Discover how simple protocols can enrich your Dom/sub dynamic through structure and connection. Learn why starting small and staying consistent matters…
Is BDSM Compatible with Christianity? The Surprising Truth (Ep. 51)
Reconciling BDSM with Christianity can be tough, but understanding scripture can help! Dive into the Dom Sub Living Podcast to explore faith and desires…
BDSM Scene Structure 101: Step-by-Step from Start to Finish (Ep. 50)
Crafting the perfect BDSM scene involves pleasure, restraint, pain, and constant communication. Key elements include mood setting, improvisation, and aftercare…
Feeling Lost in Kink? Here’s How to Find Your Unique BDSM Path (Ep. 49)
Feeling lost in your kink journey? Build confidence, find community, and explore safely with tips from the Dom Sub Living Podcast. Discover how to find your unique path…
Vetting a Submissive? Avoid These 5 Red Flags Before You Commit (Ep. 48)
When vetting a sub, look out for inconsistency, boundary issues, and unwillingness to learn. A healthy D/s dynamic needs respect, trust, and communication…
Topping from the Bottom? Stop Sabotaging Your D/s Dynamic Now! (Ep. 47)
Is your DS dynamic secretly being sabotaged by topping from the bottom? Learn how to regain balance in your relationship and stop it before it wrecks everything…
How to Vet a Dominant: Key Questions and Red Flags to Look For (Ep. 46)
Vetting a Dominant is crucial for your safety and well-being in BDSM. Discover the key questions to ask, red flags to watch for, and practical tips to ensure…
Understanding Brats in BDSM: Embrace the Fun and Challenge! (Ep. 45)
Bratting can add playful energy to your BDSM dynamic, but how do you balance fun and respect? Learn effective ways to turn bratting into a positive force…