Uncover the psychology behind BDSM and what truly excites your brain. From endorphins to taboos, dive into the pleasure and emotional release of kink…
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Beducated Review – Plus Coupon Code!
As a Dom/sub couple, my partner and I are always looking for ways to explore our sexuality and improve our intimate relationship. One of the resources we’ve found incredibly helpful in this regard is Beducated. Keep reading for my complete Beducated review, and also get your coupon code for a subscription discount. My Honest Beducated […]
Wearing a Collar 24/7 in My D/s Marriage: What It’s Really Like (Ep. 69)
Collars in D/s dynamics aren’t just symbols—they represent ownership, commitment, and trust. Discover the depth and meaning behind wearing a collar 24/7 in our latest episode…
How to Write a BDSM Contract + Free Printable BDSM Contract Template
Have you considered adding a new layer of structure and reliability to your BDSM dynamic? Well, then you’ve come to the right place! It’s always a good idea to have a BDSM contract before you begin any new Dom/sub relationship. It spells out in detail what is expected of each person. It also keeps things safe […]
BDSM in Real Life: A Dom/sub Married Couple Shares Their Journey (Ep. 67)
Harlo and Adira share their journey in balancing BDSM roles with real-life responsibilities, offering tips on communication, mindset, and dealing with challenges…
5 BDSM Experts Reveal the #1 Thing They Wish They Knew (Ep. 65)
Discover what every kink expert wishes they knew before starting BDSM! Insightful, heartfelt advice from top educators to help you embrace your journey and…
BDSM Goals: The Kinkiest Bucket List You’ll Ever See (Ep. 64)
Looking to spice up your BDSM journey? Discover new ways to set thrilling, meaningful goals in your dynamic and build deeper connections. Curious how? Let’s dive in…
Check Off Your Dom Sub Living Kinky Bingo Card
You did a lot of kinky things this year. What did you check off your BDSM bucket list? There’s no way to sugarcoat it. From a messy political election, the spectacle of the Olympics, and whispers of a possible bird flu pandemic, 2024 has been a rollercoaster of a year. But through all the hardships, […]
Q&A With a 24/7 Submissive – Ask Me Anything! (Ep. 62)
Understanding D/s dynamics, maintaining trust, and proactive submission can be challenging yet rewarding! Explore key insights and tips to thrive in your dynamic…
Impact Play 101: 5 Beginner-Friendly Ideas to Try Now (Ep. 61)
Curious about Impact Play but not sure where to begin? Discover 5 simple, beginner-friendly ideas to make your experience safe, fun, and fulfilling with these tips and…
Exploring BDSM Roles: Which One Is Right for You? (Ep. 60)
Discover your BDSM identity with Dom Sub Living Podcast! Explore various roles like dominant, submissive, and switch to find what resonates with you…
Dom Drop 101: Support Strategies Every Sub Should Know (Ep. 57)
Explore the complexities of Dom drop and learn how to offer support, reassurance, and aftercare for dominants. Navigate challenges and rebuild your dynamic by…
Punishment or Play? How to Know the Difference in BDSM (Ep. 56)
Understanding the difference between punishment and play in BDSM can prevent misunderstandings and build trust. Learn how to navigate these dynamics and…
Submissive Training Secrets: Mastering Your Role in the BDSM Lifestyle (Ep. 53)
Discover the secrets to effective submissive training! Learn how to personalize your dynamic and ensure growth in your BDSM relationship…
Is BDSM Compatible with Christianity? The Surprising Truth (Ep. 51)
Reconciling BDSM with Christianity can be tough, but understanding scripture can help! Dive into the Dom Sub Living Podcast to explore faith and desires…
BDSM Scene Structure 101: Step-by-Step from Start to Finish (Ep. 50)
Crafting the perfect BDSM scene involves pleasure, restraint, pain, and constant communication. Key elements include mood setting, improvisation, and aftercare…
Feeling Lost in Kink? Here’s How to Find Your Unique BDSM Path (Ep. 49)
Feeling lost in your kink journey? Build confidence, find community, and explore safely with tips from the Dom Sub Living Podcast. Discover how to find your unique path…
Vetting a Submissive? Avoid These 5 Red Flags Before You Commit (Ep. 48)
When vetting a sub, look out for inconsistency, boundary issues, and unwillingness to learn. A healthy D/s dynamic needs respect, trust, and communication…
How to Vet a Dominant: Key Questions and Red Flags to Look For (Ep. 46)
Vetting a Dominant is crucial for your safety and well-being in BDSM. Discover the key questions to ask, red flags to watch for, and practical tips to ensure…
Maintenance Spankings: 5 Things You Need to Know (Ep. 44)
Maintenance spankings reconnect and prevent bratty behavior, maintaining your D/s dynamic. But how do they differ from punishment spankings, and what’s their real purpose…
4 Ways to Build Trust in a Dom/sub Relationship (Ep. 42)
We’re delving into the core of trust in D/s relationships, sharing actionable tips on building and maintaining trust to create a deeper bond…
How to Balance a 24/7 BDSM Dynamic with Vanilla Life (Ep. 40)
Balancing a 24/7 BDSM dynamic with everyday responsibilities can be overwhelming. Discover practical tips for harmony between your vanilla life and BDSM desires…
Perfectionism in BDSM as a Dom or Sub (Ep. 39)
Feeling overwhelmed by perfectionism in your BDSM journey? We’re sharing tips on embracing imperfection and announcing a free 4-day boot camp to help…
Navigating BDSM with a Disability: Empowering Your Journey (Ep. 38)
We’re exploring how inclusivity enriches the BDSM community, with practical tips on adapting to disabilities and embracing your journey…
Kink and Kids: DOs and DON’Ts for D/s Parents (Ep. 36)
Balancing parental duties with BDSM can be challenging. Learn tips on privacy, consent, and maintaining your dynamic while raising kids. Find out more about…
BDSM Q&A: Fresh Ideas, Avoiding Burnout, Navigating DMs (Ep. 35)
Let’s have a deep dive into the nuanced aspects of maintaining a vibrant and healthy Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship! This recent podcast episode was all about your questions and my responses.
SSC vs. RACK vs. PRICK: Which BDSM Safety Protocol Fits You? (Ep. 33)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today, we’re diving deep into a topic that often stirs up quite a bit of conversation within the BDSM community: the dynamics of communication and consent, and the use of different acronyms like SSC, RACK, PRICK, and others. Let’s explore these kink terms, my personal preferences, […]
BDSM in your 40s, 50s, and Beyond! (Ep. 32)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE We’re diving into a topic close to my heart—embracing BDSM as a lifestyle in your 40s, 50s, and even later. Many people think of BDSM as a young person’s game, but let me tell you, that’s far from the truth. Age is not only a number […]
BDSM’s Role in My Mental Health Journey (Ep. 30)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE We’re delving into the intricate ties between mental health and BDSM as I share a very personal narrative that some may find unexpected—how BDSM has emerged as a beacon of hope in my journey with mental health. The Silent Battle: Living with Mental Illness I’ve always […]
Exploring the Depths of BDSM with Just Press Foreplay (Ep. 29)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE I sat down with Suzii from Just Press Foreplay to peel back the layers of a Dominant-submissive (D/s) dynamic. We can’t stress enough the importance of communication and regular check-ins. It’s about understanding each other’s depths—one question, one journal entry at a time. This foundational practice […]