LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Navigating the world of BDSM can be both exhilarating and daunting, and you’re not alone if you’ve ever felt stuck or overwhelmed. Today, we’re diving deep into why mentorship can be a beacon of light on your kinky path, and how to discern a genuine mentor […]
Podcast Episodes
Connecting with the Kink Community (Ep. 26)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE We’re diving deep into the heart of community within our diverse scene—discussing everything from munches to dungeons and everything in between. So, let’s unravel some of those discussions here in a way that I hope will empower you to step out and connect with your fellow […]
Foolproof BDSM Advice (Ep. 25)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today we’re delving deep into a subject that is both personal and pivotal for anyone who is exploring the realms of BDSM. As someone who has navigated the complexities of power dynamics, I’ve heard my fair share of advice – some good, and some outright dangerous. […]
What No One Tells You About Dom/Sub Relationships (Ep. 24)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE We’re diving deep into the less-discussed topics of BDSM relationships—a world far beyond the staged perfection of a dungeon scene. As someone who has transitioned from a vanilla to a BDSM relationship, I have firsthand experience with the raw complexities this lifestyle entails. So, let’s cut […]
Surprising Signs You Might Be a Switch (Ep. 23)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today I am diving into the thrilling world of being a switch in the BDSM community. In this blog post, we’ll explore the surprising signs that suggest you might be a switch, and I’ll share some insightful experiences and perspectives on the fluidity of power, desire, […]
4 Ways to Be a Better Dominant (Ep. 22)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE:APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | AUDIBLE Today, I’ll be unraveling the secrets to becoming a great Dominant. Whether you’re just beginning your journey into BDSM or you’re a seasoned practitioner, these insights will revolutionize your approach and deepen the dynamic with your submissive. 1. Cultivating Effective Communication Effective communication lays the foundation […]
The Truth about BDSM Tradwives (Ep. 21)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE Today, I want to dive deep into the differences and similarities between the BDSM and Tradwife dynamics. As a submissive and long-time advocate for informed and consensual relationship dynamics, I find it essential to understand and respect various lifestyle choices, not just those under the […]
Mastering Daily BDSM Consistency: Try These Tricks! (Ep. 20)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE Are you ready to dive deep into the intricate world of maintaining daily consistency in your BDSM relationship? Are you struggling to integrate the power and passion of your dynamic into the chaos of everyday life? Fear not, for I’ve got some tricks up my […]
5 Newbie Mistakes I Didn’t Expect in My BDSM Journey (Ep. 19)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE In this episode, I share some embarrassing but essential reflections on the newbie mistakes I made when I first ventured into the captivating world of BDSM. I believe that by unveiling my missteps, I can help others steer clear of similar awkward situations and find […]
Helping Your Partner Embrace the BDSM Lifestyle (Ep. 18)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE I’m thrilled to dive into a topic that’s essential for the well-being of any BDSM relationship – helping your partner become more interested and comfortable in the lifestyle. Whether you’re a Dominant or a submissive, navigating this journey with your significant other should be about […]
Finding Kinky Love: How to Find a D/s Partner (Ep. 17)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE Today, we’re diving into a topic that’s on many of your minds – finding a legitimate Dom or sub partner. Whether you’re single, navigating the challenges of the BDSM community, or seeking a third partner to enhance your dynamic, I’ve got you covered. Let’s explore […]
Overcoming Dom/sub Mindset Struggles with Leann Herron (Ep. 16)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE In this episode, I take us back to the Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit, where I had the pleasure of interviewing the amazing Leann Herron from Finding Resilience with Leann. Leann is not your average guest; she’s a sought-after educator, a certified health and life coach, […]
Our BIGGEST Announcement Yet (Ep. 15)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE Hey there, kinky friends! I am ecstatic to share some groundbreaking news with you—something that our team at Dom Sub Living has been tirelessly working on behind the scenes. This is a game-changer, a revolutionary opportunity that will redefine the way BDSM education happens. Are […]
5 Ways to Master Long-Distance D/s Relationships (Ep. 14)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE In this episode, I share my experience navigating a long-distance D/s dynamic with my Dom while he commutes from Southern California to the San Francisco Bay Area. It hasn’t been without its challenges, but we’ve managed to revamp our dynamic and make things better than […]
New BDSM Trends and Predictions for 2024 (Ep. 13)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE We’ve seen a lot of changes and emerging trends in the world of kink, and I’m here to give you a sneak peek into what’s in store for the year ahead. So, grab your favorite paddle, and let’s dive into the state of BDSM and […]
The Good, Bad, and Ugly of my 2023 (Ep. 12)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE As I sit down to reflect on the past year’s journeys and challenges, I am filled with a mix of emotions – gratitude for overcoming difficulties, awe at the transformative power of vulnerability, and a deep sense of resilience that has propelled me forward despite […]
What’s Coming in 2024 for the Podcast and Dom Sub Living (Ep. 11)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE I can’t wait to share with you some exciting updates and plans for the upcoming year! 2023 has been quite a journey. As we step into 2024, I wanted to take a moment to give you a sneak peek into what’s coming up at Dom […]
5 Kinksters Answer: “What I Wish I Knew Before Getting into BDSM” (Ep. 10)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE I am thrilled to bring you a BDSM roundup, where we delve into the diverse perspectives and experiences within the BDSM community. From seasoned Dominants and submissives sharing their pearls of wisdom to those just beginning their journey, the range of insights and stories we […]
3 Reasons Why Your D/s Relationship Keeps Failing (Ep. 9)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE On this episode, we dive into a topic that’s not often discussed openly in the lifestyle – failing D/s relationships. I know the disappointment, frustration, and self-blame many of you experience when a D/s relationship falters. But remember, you are not alone. Accurate Information for […]
How We Built a 24/7 Total Power Exchange Relationship, Step-by-Step (Ep. 8)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE In today’s episode, we are going to dive deep into the steps we took to establish our 24/7 Total Power Exchange (TPE) relationship. It’s been quite the journey, and I’m thrilled to share it with you! Step 1: Research and Education When my partner, Jay, […]
Meet my Dom! Advice and Tips for Dominants (Ep. 7)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE I am excited to introduce my partner to you: Jay! Jay has been an integral part of my journey as a submissive, and today we will dive deep into our Dom/sub dynamic, and explore the challenges, triumphs, and growth we have experienced together as a […]
How to Create Meaningful Traditions for Your D/s Dynamic (Ep. 6)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE As you approach the holiday season, it’s natural to shift your focus toward family gatherings, festive decorations, and gift exchanges. However, it’s important for you not to forget about your BDSM dynamic and the unique bond you share with your partner. So, let’s explore some […]
3 Big Myths About BDSM That Are Holding You Back (Ep. 5)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE In this episode of my podcast, I share a personal story about the myths and limiting beliefs that held me back in the early stages of my own Dom/sub relationship. Today, I want to delve deeper into these myths and discuss how you can break […]
Why Now is the Best Time to Start Your BDSM Journey (Ep. 4)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE Let’s explore why there has never been a better time to start living the BDSM lifestyle. We’ll discuss the reasons why now is the opportune moment to embrace your true potential as a Dominant or submissive. So let’s dive into the fascinating world of kink […]
Why I Quit My Vanilla Relationship to Become a Full-Time Submissive (Ep. 3)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE In this exciting episode, I wanted to share my personal story and reveal the driving force behind my decision to become a full-time submissive. As a BDSM instructor and D/s relationship coach, I am often asked what led me down this path. Today, I’m here […]
5 Reasons Why You Need BDSM in Your Life (Ep. 2)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE Welcome, fellow kinksters and curious minds, to another exhilarating episode of Dom Sub Living! Today I want to dive deep into the world of BDSM. Whether you’re a seasoned practitioner or just starting to explore this exciting realm, I’m here to share five compelling reasons […]
My Unfiltered Story About Why I Started This Podcast (Ep. 1)
LISTEN TO THE EPISODE: APPLE PODCASTS | SPOTIFY | GOOGLE Hey there, fellow kinksters! It’s Alesandra here, your kinky guide, and I’m thrilled to welcome you to the world of Dom Sub Living. In this blog post, I want to delve deeper into our very first podcast episode and give you an exclusive glimpse into […]